365daysgone Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 My question is mainly for the girls on here, but guys can answer too if they have experience. So, girls, will you say yes to a guy asking you on a date even I you are not interested? As long as you are not creeped out by him for whatever reason, will you say yes to a date?
Divasu Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It depends. I won't go on a 2nd date if I'm not feeling it and/or if I think he's not feeling it or if there are way too many differences between us.
nescafe1982 Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 When I was dating around I would sometimes say yes to the long-shot guy... the one who I wasn't sure I clicked with but thought "what the hell, this could be fun!" But I've never consented to a first date with a man I didn't have even a glimmer of chemistry with. That would just be excruciating! But the long-shots are worth taking chances on. I never would have imagined myself dating the man I'm with right now; we're very different people but after getting to know him, we work so well together.
KatZee Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 No. I don't agree to subsequent dates if I'm not interested. I'm not someone who gets off on leading people on, or using them for free meals/movies/etc. I find it highly awkward when the guy is more into me than I am him. When he leans in closer to get into my space, is flirting, it just makes me uneasy. So if there's no interest, there's no date.
Author 365daysgone Posted August 11, 2013 Author Posted August 11, 2013 No. I don't agree to subsequent dates if I'm not interested. I'm not someone who gets off on leading people on, or using them for free meals/movies/etc. I find it highly awkward when the guy is more into me than I am him. When he leans in closer to get into my space, is flirting, it just makes me uneasy. So if there's no interest, there's no date. I mean for an initial date. If you got asked out by a guy for a first date/get together.
dizy Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 If I am somehow physically attracted to the guy, I will likely say yes to find out more about him. Unless he is more colleague or there are other factors that I should consider. If I am not into the guy after a couple of dates, then I will be honest and just call if off.
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