kevin ngu Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 Hi everyone, my name is Kevin and I have been in a 2.5 year relationship with my ex and I am 22 and she is 20. I was on no contact with my ex gf for about a month and a half and Last we talked I had a letter to give her to admit my wrongs and wrote how I felt but she told me that she wants to move on and did not want anything I had to give her. I called her 2 days ago and was surprised she picked up. We talked about how our summer went and then she brought up the relationship. She left me before because she did not want to be committed anymore, saying it's not just me she does not want to be committed with but with anyone at the moment and wanted to be single for the summer. She still stands on those terms but she said she could not stop thinking about the letter I had for her during the time we were apart. I don't know if it was right to send her the letter since she asked if she can read it now. She said it brought up a lot of good memories, bad memories, she didn't want the letter to end and said a part even made her tear up. I asked her if she wanted to go for a walk with me and talk but she said she isn't ready, it would make things difficult for her and she was saying maybe one day we can be friends. She feels breaking up and making up is immature and it feels like high school behavior. Before we ended the called she told me she did miss cuddling, hanging out and calling me. And she even told me she was tempted 3 times to call me but she didn't. I told her I enjoyed this talk with her and she said she is happy to hear my voice. Now I can't stop thinking about her and what she could be thinking. Did I do the right thing? How can I meet up with her because I feel like I would have a chance if we could talk it out in person. What do you guys think? Do I have a chance or is it false hope. Last thing that is mind boggling for me is I told her if only we could read minds. She responded you should be able to read me and I asked can you read me and she said yes I'm pretty sure I can. Does this mean she knows I want to get back with her and what does it mean I should be able to read her. Thanks for taking the time to read my situation and I appreciate any opinions or advice.
may_girl Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 I think if she really wanted to be with you, she would reach out. You have already reached out once, you shouldn't do it again by arranging to meet with her. Leave it a while, see what she does. If she does anything at all. But don't hold out hope or wait by the phone - you need to lead your own life and strangely, that makes you more mysterious and way more attractive to her.
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