Miss her loads-can you guys pick me up?

[MarkV]

Hi guys. The story is that me and my girl of eight months have broken up. We had real chemistry and loved each other but she has dated a few idiots before and was a bit insecure and jealous. She couldn't handle the fact that I know a lot of females due to my jobs (gym,teacher etc),she once even said to me that all gym instructors are players which hurt. She was always digging for info about my past and got jealous when any of my female friends text me or commented or even liked my Facebook status's. we broke up for three weeks at the end of may but got back together. Things were great but she didn't respect my wishes of asking her not to ask about my past relationships,because in my eyes it doesn't change anything and I constantly told her I love her and that I want my future with her. She would get funny about silly things. Once I had a back wax and she commented on a mark on my back and she thought it was a scratch from anther female,and once my mum came over and she thought I'd had another girl over because a few of my mums hairs were on my sofa!? One of my best mates is a girl (part of a big group) and she felt betrayed when she found out that we used to stay over at each others after nights out. This was way before we met years ago. This was innocent and she accused me of lying because I didn't mention it at the beginning of the relationship. The night she found out about this she went berserk and actually hit me several times in the face which really hurt me! Since we broke up three weeks ago she text me a few times,we met up once and I even got a drunken call last Saturday night. I questioned her on it the next day and we had a pleasant talk etc but she then bought up that one of her friends saw me walking a girl to the train station. Even though we are not together I still explained the situation (I was out with a group of work people and we all walked to the station together,I waited with her until her cab arrived,it was 11.30pm and didn't want to leave her alone). When we broke up before I did everything to show her,I put distance between some friends who she felt threatened by,took her away, bought her a ring etc. this time I feel like I've done all I can but she doesn't trust me and feels defeated. My most trusted guy friend has even spoken to her and told her how much I love her. She's made me feel guilty about silly stuff and said things that have hurt. People can and can't understand why I still love her but I can't help the way I feel. We haven't spoke in six days..what does it all mean? Advice is needed,please

[Angry bird]

Im sorry for your frustrations. But, understand that it would have gotten much worse. Jealous people are controlling. I think you did all you could have done.

 

Be glad you didn't invest years with her, because you probably would have picked up some of her bad habits.