Chateau Posted November 4, 2004 Posted November 4, 2004 Ok, well this girl that has a big tomboy side started to like me and she wanted to hangout one night, so she called me and we did. The next night she showed up at my house with her friend out of nowhere and asked if I wanted to hangout again, so we did. That time we went to the mall . Her friend told me she thought I was really cute, and I told her I felt the same. The following night we went to the movies and had a good time. So the next weekend we went to a party and she was around me most of the night. When she was drunk though, she was kind of hanging on to this other guy too. However, she came and left with a mutual friend of ours (guy). I then later found out that he stayed the night because he was drunk and had to work early next morning nearby and they slept in the same bed. Now she told me she didn't like him like that, but still wtf? Plus, she constantly tells me about how her ex-bf cheated on her by having some girl that liked him sleep in the same bed as him when they were on some trip. So now I'm thinking double standard, too. Also, when she found out that our mutual friend had a gf, she felt horrible, because having been cheated on herself, she felt he'd cheated on her too by them sleeping in same bed. She then said she'd given up on guys because they all cheat. I told her I didn't and she smiled. Then, she got real sick and still is, but I've called her like every other day to see how she's doing and show that I care. Also, she's not the type to cheat because of being cheated on herself nor is she the type to hookup with guy's at parties. Would love to hear some feedback on whether or not I should pursue this...
tattoomytoe Posted November 4, 2004 Posted November 4, 2004 you can persue heer, it's is up to you. does not sound like it will be an easy start though. so prepare yourself. i would not get tooo attached right now...maybe wait till she shows you that she is, can be seroious too....if that is what you wqant. or just treat her as a girl you just date, meaning that you both might still see other. it's your call, decide what you want from her in a relationship, and make sure she is also aware of your expectation as well as you knowing hers.
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