rastamoose Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 One of my best friends is my ex's brother. I tried to avoid that group of friends that know her but it sucks. I don't like missing out on fun with my friends. Anyway, they have organised a FIFA tournament at his/her house tonight. I dunno if I should go. I'm not sure if she will be there or not. I don't want to miss out and not see my friends. Annoying that house will bring back memories. Theres family pictures of her in the front room lol. Worse case scenario - She is there and I have to make small talk with her. Best case - She isn't there.
theonlyjuan Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 Well how long can you avoid your friends for? You cant do it forever, that would be stupid. It's probably not going to be that easy for your ex to have you round her house either. If she finds out before she might go out. If it was me, I would go and just just have a good time. No moping or sulking around her, just be happy. You don't want to come across like your doing awful and not over her. Some ex's hate it when you look well and seem happy without them.
dgiirl Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 Oh boy! I can relate to having a mutual group of friends. Logically, I think you should go. Emotionally, it's going to be hard, for everyone, friends included! But let's hope after the first few awkward times it will get a lot better? It would suck to miss out on things. Go and try to stay in the present moment. Just keep a smile on your face even if its fake! And avoid alcohol! Lose lips sink ships.
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