Skyblue1986 Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 Ok. There is this new guy that just transferred to our office from another part of the company and took a promotion to come here. He's been here for about 2 weeks and when he first came he was just getting to know his way around and how things work. He is in charge of how my work group performs but is not a boss. At first he would ask general questions to us as a group and try to get a feel of how we work and what changes we would like to see but at the end of the day there is a vested interest in all,of us as to how we perform and make our goals. Well over the past week he has just been focusing on me and helping me even though I'm well over the goals and have no problems meeting them month in and month out. There are quite a few other people who do need help(never meeting goals) but he hasn't even spent any time with them. He shows up about 10 minutes after I start my day and before I leave. He will come check my progress for the day but he doesn't check any one else's. I have asked around to see if he has given any help to the,other people who need it and they say no. He will just stand next to me for some time and do,some,paperwork and what not. We do talk and joke around with each other as well. And over the past couple of days has he gotten a little playful with me. I have also noticed that when its just us and other people are busy his voice gets gentle and softer while we are talking. This one time he wanted to show me something on a computer that he changed and when it was just us he was really close to me and talking quietly. When I turned to look at him he looked into my eyes and then to my mouth and then back up to my eyes and gave me this little grin. Also he always uses me to evaluate our other co workers to see if they are correct on their evaluations even though there are plenty of others he could use. When we talk he looks me in the eyes and he has this small grin on his face. Also today we were talking then he got called away for a minute and he walked by me for a second and then he turned around and came over to me to talk again for a second before he went up to another floor. Which is he could have gone up to the other floor from where he was called to, he didnt have to come back by my way just to go upstairs. A little later he came by to check on me and we talked a little bit more but this time he would hardly look me in the eyes, he would stare straight away and at times he would look at me out of the corner of his eyes but when he is in a group he looks at me and acts casual. So I was wondering does it seem like he may like me?
TB Rhine Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 It seems like he may have gotten wind that you were asking around about him - he was probably called up to the office to get a talking-to from his boss about all the extra TLC he's been giving you. That's why he's only looking at you out of the corner of his eye these days...
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