questionlife Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 (edited) I have been dating this woman for 5-6 weeks and all has gone extremely well - great sex, fun, cooking, etc. and we would usually see each other on Friday or Saturday, but the last time we saw each other, she said maybe on Tuesday I hadn't heard from her all week, and was kinda bummed it looked like we were not going to be meeting up, when I receive a text message on Tuesday at 3:30 "saying how about dinner" that night at 6:30 Now, I know I am stupid - I don't have caller id or names on my phone, and had a very stressful bad weekend and Monday with an abusive bully boss, hadn't had lunch that day, and was just not thinking straight! So what happened is - I had been expecting a text from an old ex-girlfriend who wanted to catch up (honestly, just as friends) but I still didn't really want to see her, so I replied to the text message thinking it was from her and said - "no, I didn't really feel like it tonight..." I obviously didn't hear from the 'new' girlfriend again, and when I went to text her on Thursday if she would like to catch up on the weekend again, I noticed my mistake that I had replied to HER text saying "no I wasn't interested" I rang her and apologised and explained but she said she was 'over me' already and had another date lined up for the weekend... I said that it's good I learnt now how quickly and easily I could be replaced this early and we left it at that... Now, what I am wondering is - did I break up with her by mistake (thinking her text was from my ex-girlfriend and saying I didn't want to see her) or did I subconsciously know that I wasn't that special to this new girlfriend (as even on the face of it, she didn't text me until Tuesday at 3:30 to have dinner that night at 6:30) So was breaking up an understandable 'mistake', or was it my subconscious protecting me by tricking me into 'mistakenly" breaking up with her? Edited August 10, 2013 by questionlife
JDPT Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 She was simply casual dating, hence the line she has on call, or perhaps she simply said that to "get back at you." You appear to be very excited about this new girl and perhaps should have taken better measures at documenting her in your phone. Live and learn and let this one go.
Author questionlife Posted August 10, 2013 Author Posted August 10, 2013 She was simply casual dating, hence the line she has on call, or perhaps she simply said that to "get back at you." You appear to be very excited about this new girl and perhaps should have taken better measures at documenting her in your phone. Live and learn and let this one go. Yeah, I was kinda keen on her... funny things is, I hardly ever use my phone (for texting or phone calls) I prefer talking face-to-face... so as you say, I do need to learn to use it better, thanks
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