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I have decided that if I cannot get the courage to talk to the guy I like I am just going to move on. It has been a few days since I decided this and I still think about him sometimes when we have to work together. Sometimes I will find myself looking at him or I'll hear him laugh and I'll smile but I think that moving on will be good for me. I cannot bring myself to talk to him no matter how long I rehearse and I am almost certain that he doesn't like me back so... does anyone have any tips that will help me get over him faster?

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Take a chance and see what happens; that'll be a surefire way to get over him faster. Either you'll date or he'll reject you and you won't want to see him at all after that. Hence, you should take a chance and talk to him.

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Easy for you to say. I have tried talking to him before. I can even have something completely in common with him, watch the same show, for instance, and I won't be able to say word one to him. We have at least two friends in common and I can never talk to him about them either. We used to talk, I remember having conversations with him before but all that changed when I started liking him, when I became available to be hurt. The only thing I can even talk to him about without working up the courage for my entire shift is work itself.

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Then take the easy route and don't talk to him.

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I think rejection only poses more questions and it doesn't necessarily make you dislike or get over someone faster. Sometimes it just makes you wonder why. It has been a long time since I was rejected by someone I wanted to go out with but I still remember how it feels.

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I think rejection only poses more questions and it doesn't necessarily make you dislike or get over someone faster. Sometimes it just makes you wonder why. It has been a long time since I was rejected by someone I wanted to go out with but I still remember how it feels.

 

So you'd rather be safe than sorry? Gotcha

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You'll never know unless u try first. Be friendly, funny and be yourself. If he doesn't like u back that way, well, at least u know. And its his loss. Move on. But u gotta try first.Best of luck :)

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