im going to see my ex.. ??

[missscotts]

I need help my ex broke up with me 2months ago because of some of my immature behaviour never having dealt with insecurities i didn't trust him and was nagging and picking fights and incapable of gaining insight into how I was behaving it got too much for him.I know he didn't spend a lot of time thinking about breaking up with me because he had only moved in with me a month before hand and he had really pushed to move in I had been reluctant because i worried it might make our issues worse which it did.

 

After we split up I did everything wrong begging him to give me another chance telling him I would change and ofcourse it didn't work. So for the past month i have been working really hard on myself I have been getting myself back and building my self esteem something which has always been low. Iv realised how I relied on him for my entire happiness instead of being responsible for my own. Anyway so its been a full 3 weeks of no contact now but I am going to see him at the airport a trip we had planned together which we are both still going but seperately now.

 

How should i act? I want to give myself the best chance for him to see the progress i've made? I do understand its a long shot and he has probably moved on but he was such a wonderful guy and i am still very very much in love with him? Any advice would be really appreciated!?

Edited August 10, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[Kant]

Channel that love, focus on what a great guy he is and wish him nothing but the best. Tell him you hope he has a great time, joke and smile. Let him go.

 

Then get on the plane and burst in to tears if you must. When we know we wear in the wrong then we have to swallow our pride and put there best interests first. If we are lucky they will then see in us what they fell in love with the first time.

[missscotts]

Thanks for your advice. I do wish him the best he was so lovely to me. I wish to learn from my immature behavior and hope I can hold myself together:lmao: