sammyjay Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 I'm pretty socially inept, so I'm not sure what to do, or if it's just me. Here is the problem. There is a girl that I am friends with, we are on class council at school together, she is the president, I am one of the VP's. We have Presidency meetings and Council meetings every Wednesday. I feel like know that she is president and i'm a vp she is trying to make sure that I know who the boss is, like she is trying to assert herself as the alpha dog per say. Last year she was a vp and I was the council secretary, there weren't any problems last year. Some examples of what I mean are; She will ask for my opinion/advice, I'll give it and she'll say something like "no, we'll do what I said instead" or "I don't think that's right but We'll ask our advisor, and then they ask him, he says the same thing I said, and then they are okay with it." The other vp and the secretary are also female. So I'm the only guy. I actually talked to the secretary and asked her if she feels like she has a voice, and she said not really but we can't say anything. Also when we move on to our council meetings with the other council members, I feel like an idiot half the time because my friend and the other vp kind of team up, and anything they say goes and what I say is dumb. Any advice or opinions on the matter would be very appreciated, I'm sitting here depressed, because they are having a party at my friends house, and I am missing out because I don't want to get there and feel like a nothing.
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