vin1987 Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 (edited) Hi, just to quickly introduce myself my name is Vincent, 26, college student. There is this girl I find attractive, and now that the semester is ending I began to flirt with her. A few of us were sitting at a table and she asked for my number. (edit: she texted me right away to save her number) I even asked her for a massage and she gave it. Then a few of us head home and she mentions going to hang out in an area where hot guys are with hopes they will ask her out... Very confused what the next move is, if there is even one? Edited August 10, 2013 by vin1987
SantistaUSA Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 Hi, just to quickly introduce myself my name is Vincent, 26, college student. There is this girl I find attractive, and now that the semester is ending I began to flirt with her. A few of us were sitting at a table and she asked for my number. (edit: she texted me right away to save her number) I even asked her for a massage and she gave it. Then a few of us head home and she mentions going to hang out in an area where hot guys are with hopes they will ask her out... Very confused what the next move is, if there is even one? Ask her out! She is said she hopes a hot guy asks her out, have confidence and go for it. If she says no then move on, it's part of life.
white Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 A form of a common trick I've seen young women play for decades. It's not terribly logical but I think the idea is to scare you into action, or to see how you react, or to make themselves seem confident, or something. Bull**** in other words. Ask her out.
Author vin1987 Posted August 10, 2013 Author Posted August 10, 2013 A form of a common trick I've seen young women play for decades. It's not terribly logical but I think the idea is to scare you into action, or to see how you react, or to make themselves seem confident, or something. Bull**** in other words. Ask her out. We have a couple finals next week, no more class though. Should I text/call to "study"?
SantistaUSA Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 We have a couple finals next week, no more class though. Should I text/call to "study"? screw study! She wants a REAL date! How old are you guys?
Author vin1987 Posted August 10, 2013 Author Posted August 10, 2013 screw study! She wants a REAL date! How old are you guys? Sry missed the earlier post of yours both 27, she didnt say she wants a hot guy but she was going to read where "hot guys" hang out
truth_seeker Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 I have to agree with other posters on this: she is giving you hints to make a move on her.
Author vin1987 Posted August 10, 2013 Author Posted August 10, 2013 Sorry had a long day, meant to say both 26* Do you think I should wait for the finals or act now? Is it bad to use the phone if she gave me the #?
SantistaUSA Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 Sorry had a long day, meant to say both 26* Do you think I should wait for the finals or act now? Is it bad to use the phone if she gave me the #? Why wait? she already gave you the hint to ask her out. She gave you her number, that means that she wants you to get in contact with her!!! 1
truth_seeker Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 Send her a d-ck pic with a note: "Guess who?" 2
Author vin1987 Posted August 10, 2013 Author Posted August 10, 2013 lmao... If the camera adds 10 inches NP. I really dislike having long convos over text, regardless if its with a female im attracted to or anyone else. Any way I can just bluntly ask her out over the first text? Maybe to study over lunch/dinner? I really feel cheap asking over the phone, but it is 2013
SantistaUSA Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 lmao... If the camera adds 10 inches NP. I really dislike having long convos over text, regardless if its with a female im attracted to or anyone else. Any way I can just bluntly ask her out over the first text? Maybe to study over lunch/dinner? I really feel cheap asking over the phone, but it is 2013 Why study? Go out have fun!
Author vin1987 Posted August 10, 2013 Author Posted August 10, 2013 Why study? Go out have fun! Yeah I am thinking its pretty lame and it may not be that clear what I am asking... even though I would read between the lines. She works at a hotel I believe so shes there all weekend, so I would be asking for an early week date.
TB Rhine Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 Nah, ask her out for late-night after work drinks. 1
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