Author HopingAgain Posted August 12, 2013 Author Posted August 12, 2013 Have a close friend who walked in on H and OW in his office. OW was on the conf table and BW beat her up while H watched. Finally H called her off so OW left with her life. Was interesting to me that H let BW have at it with OW for awhile. Just stood there and watched. That usually is par for the course when a BS catches them together. Thev OW immediately is thrown under the bus and its every man for themselves!
Author HopingAgain Posted August 12, 2013 Author Posted August 12, 2013 Please don't fall for that hogwash. Your husband doesn't want you to know who she is because he more than likely doesn't want her boyfriend or husband to know about it so the guy can come give your husband the ass-kicking he SO clearly deserves. Your husband is a huge liar. Yes, you can BET the farm on it. My husband was and has been a huge liar. But at least read the rest of the thread before jumping to conclusions that I'm falling for any hogwash. And OW was single so the onlyv one that would have been giving well deserved ass kickings to either of them would have been me! 1
Author HopingAgain Posted August 12, 2013 Author Posted August 12, 2013 Ok...let's get this straight. He knew her cell phone number. He knew where she LIVES. Yet, miracle of miracles - he didn't know her last hame? Seriously? He only gave you the address because he knew she was moving. You need to seriously sit hubby down for a come to Jesus talk and make him start telling the TRUTH. He knew where she lived because she lived down the street from the coworkers cousins house. That is where theyv met because she would go to that house often. This was confirmed on Dday and later through my own surveillance. And she didn't move until a month later. I had her address day after Dday and her number from H. 1
dichotomy Posted August 12, 2013 Posted August 12, 2013 . Was interesting to me that H let BW have at it with OW for awhile. Just stood there and watched. The selfish bastard was probably thinking "better you AP, then me!" 1
dichotomy Posted August 12, 2013 Posted August 12, 2013 Not just a guy thing! Right after I overheard WH and OW on Dday I went out to the house where they were at with the full intentions of beating the ever lasting hell out of them both. But of course I would have gone for OW first as I knew I could get to him at anytime later. Luckily for both of them she was gone when I arrived and he was passed out drunk on the couch. The Lord was looking out for us all that day because I would have surely been either in jail or fleeing arrest for assault charges had I seen them together. I was not sure I wanted to click "like" on your post, but thats too great a story. :lmao::lmao: 1
compulsivedancer Posted August 12, 2013 Posted August 12, 2013 Thanks. My wife's response to her EA and past, has been a mixed bag, as I have complained here, but her giving up going to her home town for the several years now means she has avoided OM, places they went, and other bad eggs she knew, but she also has not seen good friends that she grew up with. This has been a painful loss to her to loose connection to the good one. She has discussed going back, for her high school reunion next year, and I am of mixed emotions about it. The damage and hurt and trust issues remain. Can you go with her? She ought to be able to see the people she knows and loves. If you come with her, that will allow her to see those people, but make it easier to trust her.
dichotomy Posted August 12, 2013 Posted August 12, 2013 Can you go with her? She ought to be able to see the people she knows and loves. If you come with her, that will allow her to see those people, but make it easier to trust her. Thanks. Yes we could. Actually I (we) did go back and try the year after dDay. It was a mixed bag of results. Her past is messy, and OM/MG while the worst, was not all of her unhealthy behaviors. So we avoided going back after this one trip. We have started talking about next summer's high school reunion. Going together would be the safest way, probably only way. But even at her HS reunion there is one minor issue with an old boyfriend that she would need to step up and deal with - or I would when we visit. We will see, we have spent a lot of time in therapy these days and I think she understands more than ever what she did and what she was back then. Therapist could help with this trip if we go. 1
Author HopingAgain Posted August 12, 2013 Author Posted August 12, 2013 I was not sure I wanted to click "like" on your post, but thats too great a story. :lmao::lmao: LOL! Yes, its so crazy that in life truth is stranger than fiction!
krazikat Posted August 12, 2013 Posted August 12, 2013 I think both sides of seeing OW/OM - before you knew - or after dDay- have bad sides. Before hand, you have the hidden disrespect issue and games - after Dday you have the anger and other emotions. I am glad I have not seen OM afterwards - it would be very bad and likely physical. I wonder if any of you gals ever felt like punching OW lights out? maybe just guy thing:rolleyes: Um...yes. I have said here before that I likely would have beat the ish out of her of she said to me in my face what she had the nerve to say to me over the phone, like asking me if I liked the taste of her p***y. It would not have been pretty.
Speakingofwhich Posted August 12, 2013 Posted August 12, 2013 The selfish bastard was probably thinking "better you AP, then me!" No kidding! My friend is a very able woman and she definitely put her talents to use that day.
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