ThaWholigan Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 (edited) Man in the box is right. Attraction, love etc - it's completely illogical. You might find someone who in the past would never accept your traits but accepts you, just because. OK, a little unlikely ..... But you should try to have some hope, while maintaining a semblance of balance. Maybe you will yield more positive results when you do that and consider your options in terms of your overall life in regards to relationships. Edited August 10, 2013 by ThaWholigan 1
Author MrTurk Posted August 10, 2013 Author Posted August 10, 2013 My ex husband was short, no religious views, no kids, no issues. My brother is short and bald, no religious views, no kids, no issues. Maybe all of this *arms flailing wildly* is that they just don't like your attitude. That to me is the most prominent and most unsexy part. It just drips of negativity, victimhood, and just plain depressing. Wrong Einstein Post such as yours are useless....because you just like to be condescending. Women dismiss me before they even meet me, or have a chance to know me. They dismiss based on the traits I listed....beforehand. Its easy for you to sit in your high and mighty chair....chuckling to yourself...while dictating your self indulged intellectual remarks....but next time actually take time to add some relevance to your comments. 1
Author MrTurk Posted August 10, 2013 Author Posted August 10, 2013 I think Miss Priss has a point. Maybe you should go after smaller statured women? I've dated men who didn't have all the traits I thought i wanted. You just have to give a woman the opportunity to get to know you. Do any of you actually read and pay attention to what I have said on here...or other OP's say on their threads?? Have I stated anywhere that I'm the one not giving women the opportunity????? Women are dismissing me before they even get out of bed. The women I have encountered dont give a sh*t if my attitude is good or bad.....once they realize I have a trait they dont like....the deal is over for them. Period. How do you give someone an opportunity to get to know you when they are the one shutting the door ??? Please explain that to me. Or when people tell me..."oh you just need to be more positive". If a woman is dead set on never dating bald guys.....it doesnt matter how positive and happy I am....she doesnt like bald and thats that. I'm never going to date a reborn christian. So thats the same as you telling a reborn christian...."oh you just need to be more positive and that will help your chances with him" No! its not going to help...ever!
xxoo Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 Have I stated anywhere that I'm the one not giving women the opportunity????? By having no social life, you are preventing women from getting to know you naturally, in a situation where your positive traits would shine. That's how crushes sneak up on us. 3
Author MrTurk Posted August 11, 2013 Author Posted August 11, 2013 Bald = I doubt that once you see the guys face most of the time
MissBee Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 Wear platform shoes, get a toupee, convert to Christianity, print a fake degree and frame it or carry a wallet-sized fake degree around to show, they'll never check, get a woman pregnant so you can be a more attractive single-dad. Try these and see if it makes a difference for you. Or move from NE Ohio to another state or region in your state and see if that helps.
Author MrTurk Posted August 11, 2013 Author Posted August 11, 2013 By having no social life, you are preventing women from getting to know you naturally, in a situation where your positive traits would shine. That's how crushes sneak up on us. So I'm supposed to stop doing social activities I enjoy doing because theres no single women hanging out there? 1
MomsSpaghetti Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 I doubt that once you see the guys face most of the time Exactly. 99% of guys look 5x worse without hair. When women say "bald guys are sexy", they're thinking about bald guys like tennis player James Blake (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v358/veryvogue/james-blake.jpg), who is 1/2 Black.
bentleychic Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 Exactly. 99% of guys look 5x worse without hair. When women say "bald guys are sexy", they're thinking about bald guys like tennis player James Blake (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v358/veryvogue/james-blake.jpg), who is 1/2 Black. Are you kidding me? 99% of guys do NOT look 5x worse without hair. Dang. Thank God, mother nature, whatever higher power you believe in that most bald men don't feel like that. I'd be a very unhappy lady!!! hahaha OP: I hope that your attitude in person is not similar to in your post here. It's very negative and contrary and would be a definite turn off for me. Shoot, every time someone mentions that they would like certain traits that you listed, you brush them off with something negative. 3
carhill Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 OP, your posting reminded me of a guy I often admired, especially in his later life when he was dying of cancer and made some very poignant PSA's on the hazards of smoking. He was: 5'8" Bald for most of his life A high school dropout Despite inauspicious beginnings and growing up in a single parent household, he would become one of the most recognizable faces of his generation, married four times and the father to five children. You might recognize him Love what you are. It's all too brief to enjoy. Good luck.
Author MrTurk Posted August 11, 2013 Author Posted August 11, 2013 Love what you are. It's all too brief to enjoy. Good luck. Another post that has nothing to do with the topic of this thread. Instead of addressing the topic(which is about how many women where I live dismiss me because of the traits I have) you focus your replies stating I need to build up my confidence and embrace the short life that we have. I am convinvced most of the people that look at these threads make snap judgements....then post replies....without actually learning the context of the discussion.
xxoo Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 So I'm supposed to stop doing social activities I enjoy doing because theres no single women hanging out there? Facts of life: Your chances of attracting a woman are much higher if you spend time with women. 4
Author MrTurk Posted August 11, 2013 Author Posted August 11, 2013 Facts of life: Your chances of attracting a woman are much higher if you spend time with women. Send some my way
iKING Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 Send some my way That's really not how things work. 2
Author MrTurk Posted August 11, 2013 Author Posted August 11, 2013 OP: I hope that your attitude in person is not similar to in your post here. It's very negative and contrary and would be a definite turn off for me. Shoot, every time someone mentions that they would like certain traits that you listed, you brush them off with something negative. LOL You are the only one in this thread that has stated you dont have issues with the traits I listed....and I dont see anywhere where I brushed you off with any comments. 1
Star Gazer Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 I doubt that once you see the guys face most of the time The guy I went out with last night has a full set of hair follicles and is intentionally bald. He's waaaaay cuter without hair.
Author MrTurk Posted August 11, 2013 Author Posted August 11, 2013 The guy I went out with last night has a full set of hair follicles and is intentionally bald. He's waaaaay cuter without hair. I dont mean that specific guy.....I mean in general....any random bald guy. Or you may just have a fetish for bald heads....which may alter your perception of him. A guy that walks in a bar with a leather jacket and an earing and goatee is going to garner a totally different vibe from women.....than if he walked in wearing a button down and dockers.....even though his personality and who he is as a person is exactly the same. Each person perceives things they see differently. If you cropped the pic of a bald guy you like.....only to see his face.....not knowing if hes bald or not.....and did that with say 20 other pics of guys faces only.....it would totally skew your perception of what you find attractive.....because the bald head was removed from the equation. This is exactly what happens when women see tall guy, or they know a guy is rich, or when guys see a woman with nice breasts, or nice legs.....it automatically gives bonus points to all of the other traits they have....without you realizing you do it.
carhill Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 Another post that has nothing to do with the topic of this thread. Instead of addressing the topic(which is about how many women where I live dismiss me because of the traits I have) you focus your replies stating I need to build up my confidence and embrace the short life that we have. I am convinvced most of the people that look at these threads make snap judgements....then post replies....without actually learning the context of the discussion. You should try reading some of the 30,000+ postings from a similarly situated guy and learn something, young man. Been there, done that, made lemonade.
Author MrTurk Posted August 11, 2013 Author Posted August 11, 2013 You should try reading some of the 30,000+ postings from a similarly situated guy and learn something, young man. Been there, done that, made lemonade. I'll never learn anything from the men on here 1
Southern Cal Dude Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 Channing Tatum, Vin Diesel, and Michael Jordan say hi. 5
Star Gazer Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 Channing Tatum, Vin Diesel, and Michael Jordan say hi. So do Bruce Willis, Chris Daughtry, Jason Stratham, Taye Diggs, LL Cool J, The Rock. 4
tbf Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 So do Bruce Willis, Chris Daughtry, Jason Stratham, Taye Diggs, LL Cool J, The Rock.As do Samuel L. Jackson and Patrick Stewart. 1
KathyM Posted August 11, 2013 Posted August 11, 2013 why should he spend thousands of dollars on hair? he's 42, not 22. Because most women are more attracted to a man who has a full head of hair, moreso than a balding man or bald man. Even at 42. That's a fact, don't shoot the messenger. religious is primarily used for hatred and division and wtf do you mean just atheists will date atheists? false. i didn't drink the koolaid of any religion either. bible, koran, torah, riddled with errors and non truths. When people are looking for a relationship, they are usually wanting someone who is compatible with their faith. Hence, why the OP is facing some rejection on those grounds from women who have a faith. 95%+ of people in the U.S. believe in a higher power. no kids by 40 doesn't indicate he's not fatherly. It means he has never been a father, and women may think he has no interest in raising children if he got to that age and has never been married and/or had children. females and religious people, can't stand either as a whole. your blathering explains succinctly why. Well, that really narrows down the people you can connect with, now doesn't it?
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