Lohloloo Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 Hi! I'm new here. Can you guys please help? I don't know if I should stay or break up with my boyfriend. Someone told me that I should make a list of the pro's and con's of staying with him versus leaving him. So, here's the list that I made. Bad traits/why I want to break up with him: He is cheap; Never takes me out; Has a big debt, but doesn't want to look for a job; Never admits when he's wrong, even when I'm proved right; Never shows appreciation or says thank you; Thinks I'm his maid/errand boy; He lost his drivers license because he borrowed it to a so called true friend, but won't lend me (his girlfriend!) a thing; Keeps his age a secret; (yes, I don't know my boyfriends age/birthday. He never ever celebrates it. His friends, college mates, colleageus, no one knows how old he is. Only his mom and his brothers/sisters know it. It's weird, but it's his choice, so I have to respect it.) Good traits/why I want to stay with him: He's also my best friend; We have a lot of the same interests; Never scolds or yells at me; Forgiving; Very calm and patient; Artistic, creative; (poetry, guitar, piano) Intelligent; (builds robots and stuff, Arduino??? lol idk) Romantic; (gives great massages) Makes me feel beautiful; I can be myself with him; What do you guys think?
NoLeafClover Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 If you gotta ask, then YES, you should break up with your so. I am never a true believer of "lets make a list and post the good and bad things on our partners/ ex's" as it's always bias to the situation. I could list 100 bad things about my ex, starting from the way she walks..does not mean she is not a good person or a bad match however. So far she was the best GF I ever was with ..and I dated quiet a few women
Lei Ping Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 Hi! I'm new here. Can you guys please help? I don't know if I should stay or break up with my boyfriend. Someone told me that I should make a list of the pro's and con's of staying with him versus leaving him. So, here's the list that I made. Bad traits/why I want to break up with him: He is cheap; Never takes me out; Has a big debt, but doesn't want to look for a job; Never admits when he's wrong, even when I'm proved right; Never shows appreciation or says thank you; Thinks I'm his maid/errand boy; He lost his drivers license because he borrowed it to a so called true friend, but won't lend me (his girlfriend!) a thing; Keeps his age a secret; (yes, I don't know my boyfriends age/birthday. He never ever celebrates it. His friends, college mates, colleageus, no one knows how old he is. Only his mom and his brothers/sisters know it. It's weird, but it's his choice, so I have to respect it.) Good traits/why I want to stay with him: He's also my best friend; We have a lot of the same interests; Never scolds or yells at me; Forgiving; Very calm and patient; Artistic, creative; (poetry, guitar, piano) Intelligent; (builds robots and stuff, Arduino??? lol idk) Romantic; (gives great massages) Makes me feel beautiful; I can be myself with him; What do you guys think? Are you kidding me? Dude doesn't have a job? Not "looking" for work? Not independently wealthy? He's not cheap.....he's broke! The guy's a Bum. Run! It's only going to get worse! He doesn't "take you out" because he can't afford to. Sheeesh!
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