Been almost a year since break up, ex contacted me.

[shadow15]

It was pretty weird; she contacted me at 10 at night just asking stupid questions and then she stopped. I was curious why would you txt me that late night at night; so I texted her saying what did you want. She just went into detail, how I was just thinking about you, you were my best friend, and I realize now how badly I treated you. She said I have a conscious you know. I let her talk, and I said so the only reason you texted me was just to see if I hated you or not and to ease your conscious. She was then going dont make me sound like a b***h, and I don't understand why we can't be friends, it's been over a year and I have no problem being friends with my other exes. I told her I'm not giving her the benefit of the doubt on easing her conscious, cause I said we both know that's the only reason you texted me. She then went on saying, your making me mad, don't talk to me and then she unfollowed me on twitter again.

 

This happened a couple of weeks ago, and I'm just now getting to post it. Anyways I find it so interesting, that everything everyone said on these forums has came true. I think I handled the situation pretty well. At they end she started to bring up the past again saying you got to let it go, and move on. I think I made it pretty clear to her that I moved on, but to me it's like she gets the power of thinking I still want her, I guess that's why she texts me every couple of months. She says she wants to civil and be friends. I told her I am being civil right now, but we can't be friends since we was never friends in the first place. She then said, if we didn't date; I could almost guarantee we would be friends. What does everyone take from this? I find it funny personally but that's just me.

[Chi townD]

Well.....at least she didn't deny it! (the part about easing her guilt, seeing where your head was at....)

[JDPT]

That girl has some never, she isn't even worth putting the effort to formulate a response.

[Chi townD]

She was then going dont make me sound like a b***h, and I don't understand why we can't be friends, it's been over a year and I have no problem being friends with my other exes.

 

LOL! I would have texted back, "I'm not making you SOUND like a bitch.."

[Heysimon]

Funny how it works , straight from the Swingers movie... I been around so long and have had so many exes lol I get one calling every month or two.... kinda nice, something like an 401k invested in my younger years n now they want to cash in lol.... On the other thing about being friends, to hell with that, heterosexual men n women were not meant to be friends, thats why we are physically different and think differently... being friendly is one thing being friends...... she is trying to have her cake and eat it tooo........ just my 2 cents..

[cruelworld]

i think that`s not a bad thing to be just friend with her.why the hell you dont want that? some people cant throw away the worth people in their life.you are important to her that she regrets not knowing anything about you for a year.that`s a good sign that she wants to be with you as a friend i dont know why some of the guys have problem with that.

[Lei Ping]

Normally when you're with a psycho you actually have to endure their psychosis during the relationship. Fortunately she let you escape before any damage could be done. Never lose her number or you won't know it's her and to discard the calls.

[Mcnulty]

My favourite bit.." I have a conscience you know". Hawhaw!, Christ I wouldn't dare say that to me ex that I'm friends again with, you're asking to be shot with **** by that comment!