sweetpea01 Posted November 3, 2004 Posted November 3, 2004 K, here's the story. My 2 yr anniversary with my bf is this weekend on Saturday. I wanted to spend the weekend just with him, but then he tells me its his ancient grandma's b-day and he has to be at her party. I was a bit disappointed, but I said okay. Yesterday he calls me and says nevermind, I'm taking you wine tasting for the weekend, which I love to do. So, I was pretty excited. Today I find out that it's with some of his friends (one couple which I don't like) and about 2 other guys. I barely know any of these ppl, and told him I had really just wanted to be with him or do something just with him. I mean, come on, it's sort of a special day, right? I'm going to grad school soon, so next anniv, I won't even be in this state. He tells me I am absolutely the most spoiled girl on the planet, and that instead of being grateful I'm complaining about it. I told him the idea was sweet, but that I just dont see why this weekend has to be a group thing! Additionally, I said I don't mind ppl joining us, if it was some good friends of ours, but these are ppl I barely know! Anyway, we're not talking right now, and I'm just wondering, am I being unreasonable? If I am, I'll fess up to it...I just dont see why spending the day with my bf on such a special day makes me sound so demanding. Sweetpea
tanbark813 Posted November 4, 2004 Posted November 4, 2004 I don't think you're being unreasonable at all. I'd be upset if I were in your shoes.
dizi Posted November 4, 2004 Posted November 4, 2004 Aye...you've made very good points to him...what's so wrong with being alone for your anniversary? That doesn't make you spoiled! Shame you aren't talking, though....You should probably go anyway. Let him know that you were just hoping to spend some time alone for your Anniversary, but if you have to go with these people, so be it. Maybe you can do something special another day...?
tiki Posted November 4, 2004 Posted November 4, 2004 You're not being unreasonable. Tell him if it was in your plans or intentions to spend the anniversary with other people, you'd would have had gone to Grandma's birthday celebration. I say do that anyway, if she craps off, somebody's gonna have a lot of guilt.
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