emelyrod Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 Ok just want to make sure that I'm not reading him wrong. This guy sent me a text saying it'd be nice to relax on a couch and watch a movie with me. He said he already knew what movie and I'd love it. I asked him what movie he was talking about and he said he's not gonna tell me, but I have to watch it with him and it's a great movie. He said I'd cry like a baby and love every minute of it. Soo what the heck is he implying? He's not talking about watching an actual movie right? He's never texted me something like this before so this really took me aback! btw he had couple of drinks before he texted me. We met on online dating and went on 2 dates. So far we've only kissed each other on the cheek! Is he being rude/disrespectful because we don't know much about each other yet and he's already sending me weird texts?
Philosoraptor Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 Sounds like he is saying he wants you over his place to watch a movie, but wants the actual movie to be a surprise. Unless I'm missing something, it seems pretty straight forward. If you're comfortable going over there (could try to get physical), go for it. If not, suggest you save that for later and send him a different date idea. 3
will1988 Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 Personally I find it kind of too quick to be watching sappy love movies with a girl you've only dated twice... thats just me. However, if he is being serious, he could have "rude" or "other" intentions besides just watching a movie... or he can honestly be trying to win your affection and try to show you a movie he thinks you will like (in hopes that you may jump in to the sack with him... possibly). Do you feel uncomfortable watching this movie with him? if so, then just tell him you'd like to see him a few times more before him bringing a movie and some pop corn to your house! See how he reacts. also, the fact that you said he was drunk, he could have thought he was being sweet and cute by saying those lines, but now might think he said something stupid whilst drunk. Ask him again when he is sober.
Author emelyrod Posted August 9, 2013 Author Posted August 9, 2013 Ok I don't think it's just my imagination. He was being so flirty, which is unusual. He said he wanted to cuddle up with me and asked if I like his arms wrapped around me (never said these before). When I said I've never heard of a movie like that and asked if it's a drama, he never replied...
BluEyeL Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 He wants you to go to his place, only go if you are ready to get physical. If not, say I can't wait to do that, save the movie for me, but perhaps a little later, why don't we do this other thing instead next week? 1
MidwestUSA Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 Because I DO have the ability to interpret such texts, I'll tell ya. It's The Notebook! Or anything with an animal that has been orphaned in the wild and raised by humans. 5
Zahara Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 Perfect setting. He's anticipating the possibility of sex. 2
will1988 Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 He wants you to watch Sharknado Now, if you go, don't fall for the whole "just the tip" bit that seems to be plauging some LS posters as of late. 1
white Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 I used to invite ladies in whom I was interested over for actual movies, not sex, you know. You best believe when they tell me they've never seen Ghostbusters or Dances With Wolves etc, I'm taking steps to remedy that. Besides I'll need the emotional support for Dances. I legit bawl my eyes out. 1
nescafe1982 Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 LOL- it's totally the Notebook. Don't go to a new date's house for a romantic evening unless one of the following has been established: 1) You are interested in sex if it "arises;" 2) You have established clear boundaries around the issue of sex (e.g. had the talk about whether/how long you want to wait). A dude inviting a lady to his house to watch a movie is definitely a clear signal he's interested in taking it to the next physical level. Just appraise where you stand, and have fun! 1
Ninjainpajamas Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 He's just trying to set up a situation where you will become emotional, vulnerable and more likely to be open to some physicality and sensual expressions such as kissing, cuddling and then maybe more If things are going well. It seems exactly why he's taking it to the next level, he's trying to kick-start the experience and put ideas in your head of an intimate/romantic situation...so this is his game. Even if he doesn't realize the fact that what he is doing is trying to coax you into a romantic situation, he very well is...it's just up to you whether you're ready for that and how you react will make a difference, I'm sure he'll read that when you're there...and not every guy makes a move necessarily, some are shy and insecure...it doesn't necessarily mean they are "nice" or "good" guys, I think this is just his game at this point...which I'm not saying is necessarily a sinister thing, but I believe he is trying to speed things up romantically and this is a perfect situation in his head to do so.
bentleychic Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 Because I DO have the ability to interpret such texts, I'll tell ya. It's The Notebook! Or anything with an animal that has been orphaned in the wild and raised by humans. Notebook was exactly what I thought! hahaha
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