berkeley1987 Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 alright, i'm not going to lie, my ex gf is hella fine. all of these dudes want her...and it use to bug the hell out of me. every weekend she goes to the club most of the time without me, because thats not my scene. i tend to get suspicious because i see her in pictures with different guys all the time. i get it shes popular and everyone knows her. when our relationship got rocky, she would say things like, "all these guys are waiting for me to be single... i want to be with someone else!!! i mean not right now, but in the future." when she said that it got me thinking, is she cheating on me? did she just accidentally reveal it? she was always taking her phone in the bathroom, while i was in the bedroom.. like she didn't want me going through it. after she broke up with me (because she was unhappy), i asked her is there another guy? she gets all upset and says there isn't, "you can look through my phone." i said "but all these guys want you.." she says "yes they do, but i chose you out of all of them." she told me i'm insecure and have no trust. what do you guys think?
Philosoraptor Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 Why does it matter at this point? She's gone and whether she cheated or not doesn't change that fact. What you should do is get an STD test just in case and instead of focusing on the past and what may have happened, focus on your future happiness and work on moving on.
Chi townD Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 alright, i'm not going to lie, my ex gf is hella fine. all of these dudes want her...and it use to bug the hell out of me. every weekend she goes to the club most of the time without me, because thats not my scene. i tend to get suspicious because i see her in pictures with different guys all the time. i get it shes popular and everyone knows her. when our relationship got rocky, she would say things like, "all these guys are waiting for me to be single... i want to be with someone else!!! i mean not right now, but in the future." when she said that it got me thinking, is she cheating on me? did she just accidentally reveal it? she was always taking her phone in the bathroom, while i was in the bedroom.. like she didn't want me going through it. Can't say that she was cheating on you. But, she was definitely interested in others. I mean, in the bold when she said, "in the future" she pretty much gave you a hint that she didn't see you as a future partner. That she was going to break up with you it was just a matter of when. Personally, you should be glad that she's gone. She sounds soooo stuck up!! There's nothing uglier than a pretty girl that KNOWS she's pretty and makes her conceited. Sounds like it's more of a headache than anything else. There are girls out there that are pretty. The girl next door look that don't believe that they are knock out beautiful. I like those types because they're not full of themselves. Your best bet, go no contact with your Ex. Sooner or later she may contact you again. She'll have a hard time understanding why you wouldn't want to be friends with someone as beautiful as her. So, she'll pull on the leash to make sure that the dog is still there. IGNORE HER!!! She wanted you out of her life, then that's exactly what she gets. None of this friends crap....
Author berkeley1987 Posted August 9, 2013 Author Posted August 9, 2013 Why does it matter at this point? She's gone and whether she cheated or not doesn't change that fact. What you should do is get an STD test just in case and instead of focusing on the past and what may have happened, focus on your future happiness and work on moving on. i just need to know.. to have closure. and yes, i did catch an STD from her btw, haha, but seriously, no joke.
Author berkeley1987 Posted August 9, 2013 Author Posted August 9, 2013 Can't say that she was cheating on you. But, she was definitely interested in others. I mean, in the bold when she said, "in the future" she pretty much gave you a hint that she didn't see you as a future partner. That she was going to break up with you it was just a matter of when. Personally, you should be glad that she's gone. She sounds soooo stuck up!! There's nothing uglier than a pretty girl that KNOWS she's pretty and makes her conceited. Sounds like it's more of a headache than anything else. There are girls out there that are pretty. The girl next door look that don't believe that they are knock out beautiful. I like those types because they're not full of themselves. Your best bet, go no contact with your Ex. Sooner or later she may contact you again. She'll have a hard time understanding why you wouldn't want to be friends with someone as beautiful as her. So, she'll pull on the leash to make sure that the dog is still there. IGNORE HER!!! She wanted you out of her life, then that's exactly what she gets. None of this friends crap.... maybe i'm just bitter because i can't have sex with her anymore and have her as my trophy gf. she's a B***H anyways.
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