HitmanHart Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 Hello. New girl named Alice at work that's in our team for the week and she works with my friend. Since we eat together at lunch I was introduced to her. I know what it's like being new so I was friendly. I quickly ended up liking her personality. There's still so much I don't know about her but so far she seems great. She is also beautiful. Since the first day we met earlier this week, I've been thinking about her so much. After lunch I go back to do my regular stuff at work and I've been smiling just thinking about her. Even a few people noticed this. Alice and I get along well and talk to each other alot. Sometimes we get quiet both either one brings something up. Today at lunch she went away for a few moments are my 2 friends noticed I like her. They told me its obvious and noticeable based on how I look at her, I pay alot of attention to her and I talk to her a lot and that I was a little nervous. But I won't ask her out. I no longer feel confident. I've been rejected over 7 times in my life and I know a cool girl like Alice wouldn't date a guy like me. First of all I'm not attractive at the moment. I let myself go earlier this year and gained a lot of weight, and I have a beard. Second I'm boring, don't have friends (I only socialize at work) and I'm a big nerd (I don't look like one at all however). A girl as beautiful as her wouldn't go out with a guy like me. How can I stop making girls know I like them? I can't help but trying to make them happy. I wish I wouldn't like girls the way I do because I keep thinking about her, wanting to see her again, but at the same time I feel so hurt because I like a girl that won't like me. I don't have much to offer (I don't go out much, etc). It sucks feeling this way. I can only enjoy the time I have left with her in our team before she gets sent to another team. I just feel hopeless and see no point in asking girls out at the moment. I'm going to start working out soon and ill probably ask a girl out a few months later once I regain my confidence.
Kant Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 You sound a lot like my brother. I'll tell you what I told him - Its normal and fine to like girls. But until you like your self, girls will always have trouble reaching you. Take time to work on you - in the mean time, enjoy being human enough to feel that way 1
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