Frog Princess Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 Alright, so my ex and I broke up a few months ago. We have been NC for a little over two months. I have a blog www.smoochingfrogs.com, and checked my page stats. Lo and behold, someone was scoping my page at 3 am, then again at 8am viewing several pages and articles. The platform I use shows IP addresses and the type of device if it is available. Just so happens it was my ex's same make/model phone. The last article that he viewed was one where an incident with him was mentioned...nothing too serious...just that he ran into my mother and my feelings on it 50 Ways to Say Goodbye ? Smooching Frogs All of these things lead me to believe that my ex was on my page. He broke up with me. What the hell does he want? Thoughts???
youngnlove89 Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 Cute blog. I'm checking it out. As for your ex, he's probably curious. Be careful, you might feed his ego if he knows you still are pining over him. 2
Author Frog Princess Posted August 9, 2013 Author Posted August 9, 2013 Cute blog. I'm checking it out. As for your ex, he's probably curious. Be careful, you might feed his ego if he knows you still are pining over him. I agree. I'm right at the point of getting over it. This threw me for a loop. Still not reaching out though!
Legatus Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 and stop snowballing, the reasons for checking your blog should not occupy your mind. I'm sure you've got better things to think of! : ) 1
Author Frog Princess Posted August 9, 2013 Author Posted August 9, 2013 You know what? I thought about it a little more today. My blog is a part of my journey. It's not about him. Therefore, I'm not going to worry or wonder about it. It's hard but doable. S/n: thank you ladies for being supportive!
Sugarkane Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 I love your username and liked your blog. I might have to read more. I've been the dumpee more often than not so far, don't beg and always cut the dumper off. Yet I've had dumpers act psycho and complete Aholes. It always makes me angry with this double standard with breakups. If the dumpee did the same, they'd get called psycho.
iouaname Posted August 10, 2013 Posted August 10, 2013 I love the blog title! Just wondering, how would your ex know about your blog? Either way - don't reach out and don't let it affect you. If he chooses to view it, that's his decision.
Author Frog Princess Posted August 11, 2013 Author Posted August 11, 2013 I love the blog title! Just wondering, how would your ex know about your blog? Either way - don't reach out and don't let it affect you. If he chooses to view it, that's his decision. Thank you!! The short form answer to your question is that I started the blog after we broke up. Then we went into a friend/trying to get back together phase. That didn't work out and he stopped viewing my page when we went NC. I check my page stats to figure out where my traffic is coming from so that I can better market myself, which is how I spotted him. All is good now though!
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