Skyblue1986 Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 Ok. There is this new guy that just transferred to our office from another part of the company and took a promotion to come here. He's been here for about 2 weeks and when he first came he was just getting to know his way around and how things work. He is in charge of how my work group performs but is not a boss. At first he would ask general questions to us as a group and try to get a feel of how we work and what changes we would like to see but at the end of the day there is a vested interest in all,of us as to how we perform and make our goals. Well over the past week he has just been focusing on me and helping me even though I'm well over the goals and have no problems meeting them month in and month out. There are quite a few other people who do need help(never meeting goals) but he hasn't even spent any time with them. He shows up about 10 minutes after I start my day and before I leave. He will come check my progress for the day but he doesn't check any one else's. I have asked around to see if he has given any help to the,other people who need it and they say no. He will just stand next to me for some time and do,some,paperwork and what not. We do talk and joke around with each other as well. And over the past couple of days has he gotten a little playful with me. I have also noticed that when its just us and other people are busy his voice gets gentle and softer while we are talking. This one time he wanted to show me something on a computer that he changed and when it was just us he was really close to me and talking quietly. When I turned to look at him he looked into my eyes and then to my mouth and then back up to my eyes and gave me this little grin. Also he always uses me to evaluate our other co workers to see if they are correct on their evaluations even though there are plenty of others he could use. When we talk he looks me in the eyes and he has this small grin on his face. Also today we were talking then he got called away for a minute and he walked by me for a second and then he turned around and came over to me to talk again for a second before he went up to another floor. Which is he could have gone up to the other floor from where he was called to, he didnt have to come back by my way just to go upstairs. So I was wondering does it seem like he may like me? If he does then I need to put some distance between us and not get into a situation where people will talk.
white Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 Wait, so you want to know if he's interested so you can actively distance yourself? That's ****ing cold. I'm not going to tell you if he is or not now. So nyeah. Wait, or do you mean just so you can avoid tongues wagging? Because if you haven't done or seen office relationships before, that's not going to happen. They'll wag freely.
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