JustSomeoneHurt Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 (edited) All in all she gives very good advice and has her heart in the right place. We are alike in many ways, except, that SOMETIMES she will talk about my boyfriend a lot. She does hear me out and give me advice but she's also always asking about him whenever she sees me. She tells me it's because "he's my boyfriend and we're still together," as oppose to her ex boyfriend whom I only met briefly. But last night she asked me how I would read my boyfriend if I were a third party and he was her boyfriend, and today I asked her about it, she said she only asked that because I have been right about people before. But then again she continued and said that probably, in the beginning when I first met him my impression of him was, "dark, handsome with curly hair" and she said this with a huge grin on her face. At the risk of sounding like a jealous girlfriend I want to ask, is this normal behavior for female friends? I mean really? This is the furthest from what I would do to female friend because in my mind this gives the impression that I am interested in her man!!! Do you think she is secretly attracted to him? Edited August 8, 2013 by JustSomeoneHurt
iKING Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 Let's see if I understand this correctly, your friend is making questionable remarks about your boyfriend, and asked what you would think about her and your boyfriend dating? Beyond that, she's subtly letting off the vibe that she's attracted to him, in my opinion. However, this isn't something to freak out about. I'm not sure how female social dynamics work, but you could assert your place as his girlfriend and emphasize that. Or just let it go because people are attracted to other people, it happens. If she steps out of line, that's when I'd confront her on the remarks.
Author JustSomeoneHurt Posted August 8, 2013 Author Posted August 8, 2013 Let's see if I understand this correctly, your friend is making questionable remarks about your boyfriend, and asked what you would think about her and your boyfriend dating? Beyond that, she's subtly letting off the vibe that she's attracted to him, in my opinion. However, this isn't something to freak out about. I'm not sure how female social dynamics work, but you could assert your place as his girlfriend and emphasize that. Or just let it go because people are attracted to other people, it happens. If she steps out of line, that's when I'd confront her on the remarks. Yes. She said I am "good at reading people" like her and her ex. So, she asked me what I would think of my own boyfriend with myself being a third person. Then to drive the point home she said, think of him as my boyfriend instead. Yup.
Author JustSomeoneHurt Posted August 8, 2013 Author Posted August 8, 2013 why are you posting this in a break up forum? Didn't notice, just reposted in the appropriate forum.
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