Sallygirl Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 So, last Friday my ex and I got into a little argument at work. This morning I came in to a voicemail waiting for me stating that he was sorry and if I wanted to talk about things to let him know. I was pissed and wanted to ignore it. But then I saw him and now every part of me wants to respond. Part of me is hoping for an apology and another part of me wants to let him know how much he hurt me. Please remind me of the reasons I should ignore this. I'm no sure I'm strong enough to...
Sneaky Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 Don't give in. This is the same guy that lied to you before. Don't give him a chance to manipulate you again by letting him back into your life. Stick to your boundaries and do not talk to him more than necessary. I hop you stay strong. 1
TaraMaiden Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 So, last Friday my ex and I got into a little argument at work. This morning I came in to a voicemail waiting for me stating that he was sorry and if I wanted to talk about things to let him know. I was pissed and wanted to ignore it. But then I saw him and now every part of me wants to respond. Part of me is hoping for an apology and another part of me wants to let him know how much he hurt me. Please remind me of the reasons I should ignore this. I'm no sure I'm strong enough to... No, no, no, no, no!! Do NOT let him wind you round his little finger! Your heart is stronger than you give it credit for! Please, get a grip and remain strong! What if there's no apology? What if you telling him how much he hurt you, just falls off him like water off a duck's back? What would he care anyway!? As long as he gets a response, he can be impervious to what you think!
Author Sallygirl Posted August 12, 2013 Author Posted August 12, 2013 No, no, no, no, no!! Do NOT let him wind you round his little finger! Your heart is stronger than you give it credit for! Please, get a grip and remain strong! What if there's no apology? What if you telling him how much he hurt you, just falls off him like water off a duck's back? What would he care anyway!? As long as he gets a response, he can be impervious to what you think! Thanks TM and Sneaky. I'm happy to report that I haven't responded to him. It really does feel good to have a little power back... 1
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