shvrk Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 He has been messaging me anonymously, random ****, reading my blog and questioning me about irrelevant things. I told him that not everyone is perfect, (we basically broke up because he was angry with me for my past, which isn't even bad at all, I'm human.) and after some thought and reading on the site, I told him this morning... "No one is perfect, Julian. And it will be difficult to find a virgin girl with a small body and an ass & titties that can cook for you, give you affection, and tolerate your anger, and have sex with you whenever you want and does whatever you say. You need to spend more time evaluating yourself, because watching me over tumblr and messaging me on it anonymously isn't doing anything for your character. Im taking time to figure out myself. Yeah I miss you but im doing ****. Not smoking pot, not partying, not drinking, I'm completely sober. And I don't check on you, I dont ask you about things things that often, none of that. I didn't even ask what you were doing last night. Im respecting you. You need to respect me right now. Because I'm not a little girl. I'm a woman. Really. I know I am and it takes a woman to tell you this stuff right now. I care about you, I do, which is why I want you to work on fixing yourself, and finding ways to tolerate your anger. I can help you, but that's not my responsibility. You've got to want to change, and I will be willing to give you as much help and advice as I can. But right now, I'm not sure if you are thinking about what needs to be thought about. You say that you need to figure out if you want to be with me? You should take more time on maturing, finding out how to handle a real adult relationship, learning how to admit your mistakes, and trying to fix your own problems. We are college students now. We have serious responsibilities. I don't know if any of this makes sense to u right now, but its all the truth and you need someone that knows you as well as I do to tell you.
Charym88 Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 He has been messaging me anonymously, random ****, reading my blog and questioning me about irrelevant things. I told him that not everyone is perfect, (we basically broke up because he was angry with me for my past, which isn't even bad at all, I'm human.) and after some thought and reading on the site, I told him this morning... "No one is perfect, Julian. And it will be difficult to find a virgin girl with a small body and an ass & titties that can cook for you, give you affection, and tolerate your anger, and have sex with you whenever you want and does whatever you say. You need to spend more time evaluating yourself, because watching me over tumblr and messaging me on it anonymously isn't doing anything for your character. Im taking time to figure out myself. Yeah I miss you but im doing ****. Not smoking pot, not partying, not drinking, I'm completely sober. And I don't check on you, I dont ask you about things things that often, none of that. I didn't even ask what you were doing last night. Im respecting you. You need to respect me right now. Because I'm not a little girl. I'm a woman. Really. I know I am and it takes a woman to tell you this stuff right now. I care about you, I do, which is why I want you to work on fixing yourself, and finding ways to tolerate your anger. I can help you, but that's not my responsibility. You've got to want to change, and I will be willing to give you as much help and advice as I can. But right now, I'm not sure if you are thinking about what needs to be thought about. You say that you need to figure out if you want to be with me? You should take more time on maturing, finding out how to handle a real adult relationship, learning how to admit your mistakes, and trying to fix your own problems. We are college students now. We have serious responsibilities. I don't know if any of this makes sense to u right now, but its all the truth and you need someone that knows you as well as I do to tell you. Now how will the girl be a virgin if she is having sex with him whenever he wants? To the other things, I believe u should have went about it the other way around. Only show compassion to an angry person. I know from experience which is why Im in the boat I am in now. His ex-GF, even though he didn't want or love her, ended up being the one he ran to for refuge after he got mad at me. But also remember, love is stronger than a temporary relief which is why I believe we will get back together. If he loves and care for you, he will try to make things work and evaluate himself. But then again, some people really do want to change, but never do.
emva07 Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 sounds good to me. If a man is really that picky it's because he wants an excuse to have to NOT like a woman and make her feel like **** about it. Trust me, when he finds someone he truly likes it won't matter to him if she's a prostitute who can't cook and beats him senseless. It's all just excuses. Woman bashers. Always a reason to make someone feel like crap about themselves to these people as if they were God.
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