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Girlfriend moved out the country, heart broken


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3 months ago m girlfriend of almost a year moved back to her homeland in South America. I have not been myself since she left . I started off ok but I feel like a part of me is now missing. I've had plenty of long term relationships before but they never felt close to the connection we had. The flood gates have opened and I feel like. Made the biggest mistake ever by letting her go. I have never thought about marrying anyone until I met her but I wanted to wait longer to make sure she was the one, now I feel like I let the ONE go. My family members have noticed that im not myself since she left. I was going out but i feel so empty inside, numb. things i usually love doing just arent appealing anymore. Should I marry her and bring her back to me??

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In my case I left the country because my ex took much too long (>5 years) to decide if I was "the one" for him. I will tell you that if you are serious about her and don't want to have regrets, try talking to her to see how she feels. My ex still wants to keep in touch with me over long distance (for what reason I'm not particularly sure since he isn't sure like that he actually wants to settle down with me, unlike you with your ex), so I definitely think you have a chance. It's not easy but it's definitely possible :)

 

Good luck!

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