mommyanddaddy Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 My girlfriend of 5 years has ended our relationship last sunday. We live together and have two children. She is still staying here but will not have anything to do with me. She has been ignoring me since monday and its tearing me apart. I love her with everything ive got and will do absolutely anything to make this better. I have been as ass on multiple occasions and done some things that I really regret throughout the relationship. We have been through some crazy fights and weve worked through them. More recently she has been going through some issues that I am not quite sure about, some financial related stress possibly and has been very distant. Ive tried talking to her about what is going on, ive tried giving her space and nothing seems to have worked. She went to spend the weekend at her moms across town so I took the time to work on one of our two broken vehicles. Time got away from me on sunday and it was too late to go pick her up, she wanted me to come get her that day. I called her and got no answer, and missed her next call in which she left a message saying she was going to bed. The next morning when i called her she was angry and said she no longer wants to be with me and is moving out. She called me back later and said shes not moving out but is not going to be with me. We have been sleeping separately since then and she has been video chatting with a man i have never seen or heard of before every night starting at about midnight and ending anywhere from 3am to 5 am. Im a bit jealous, im really sad, and im worried that she does not know what she is getting into. We have a 5 year old and a 2 year old and im worried about them also. I work all day and she stays at home, i cant see how she can stay up all night talking to this man and then be awake during the day to take care of our kids. I really dont know what to do. Ive been feeling very depressed and upset. I have no one to talk to and i dont know how this is going to work out. I have been trying to show her how much i really love her and she does not care. What can i do.
Knoxpwns Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 Damn, that's a really crappy situation I know how it feels to have someone you love completely ignore you and spend all their time online with another guy. It sucks the life out of you. It's even more saddening that there are young children on the line, and she seems to have no concern for them. I'm really sorry to say I have little to no advice on the matter. I have little experience in relationships dealing with kids and can't offer much in that sense. all I can offer is that I read your situation, and I empathize with you and your kids heavily. I'm sure others here can offer their advice soon as well.
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