Dude420 Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 Ok guys, I've never really gone far with a girl during dating so I might have done some screw ups, please bear with me haha. Anyway, I've just finished a 5th date with a girl and both her and I very much like each other. We went hiking, then came back to my place, cooked both of us supper and watched a movie. The hiking and supper (she became my cooking aid ) went very well and I also baked a blueberry pie. It wasn't perfect but she didn't care and said it was very good. The movie part was fine too but I'm pretty sure I made some screw ups during that time. Basically I wanted to try and move forward to making out instead of just simple kissing. During the movie, I got her to cuddle up to me and she was laying on my upper torso for half the time. I wanted to watch the movie with her and I didn't really try anything on her other than keep her close to me. I only realized this later but when there was a romantic scene, she gripped my hand a little more tightly than usual, but I didn't act on it, first mistake. After the movie was done, she said she had to catch the bus and I said "Ok", second mistake. It was 10:00pm and she says she needs to get there early before all the sketchy people come out, I didn't offer to stay the night, mistake 3, I ended up walking her to the bus stop and that was it. The good news is that we plan to do a movie marathon together and she left the movies at my place until next time. So before this happens, I would to hear some opinions on trying to make out during a movie, or perhaps some tips as well.
Knoxpwns Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 (edited) Sounds like you can pick out signals really well. Honestly I would say make a move on one of those signals, you will most likely get them again. Go with your gut dude. If she is into you, and it seems like she is (she even likes your crappy blueberry pie ) you can't really go wrong. I envy you knock it out the park, bro Edited August 8, 2013 by Knoxpwns 2
Author Dude420 Posted August 8, 2013 Author Posted August 8, 2013 Firstly, thanks for the encouragement . Second, I didn't really detail the blueberry pie but in case it's important, I can say that it wasn't perfect because I bought premade crust and it just fell apart. The filling however, was made from scratch. It was actually delicious and she was genuinely impressed .
Knoxpwns Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 Firstly, thanks for the encouragement . Second, I didn't really detail the blueberry pie but in case it's important, I can say that it wasn't perfect because I bought premade crust and it just fell apart. The filling however, was made from scratch. It was actually delicious and she was genuinely impressed . Haha yea I was being sarcastic, it doesn't really translate well via a text-based medium. I meant crappy as in just you having said it came out kinda weird, but she still loved it all the same. Either way, I think you have a grip on this situation better than you realize, but I understand how the feelings get kickin' and you start second guessing your actions.
MrCastle Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 Seems like you're aware of the signs and you know what to do. That's already half the battle. The other half is execution. You have to strike. That's all. You'll know when. Strike like a python reaching for a baby mouse. Metaphorically speaking.
Treasa Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 Make sure not to do it during a movie she really likes. For example, if someone had tried making out with me while I was seeing The Avengers, I would have slapped him. Waterworld? Sure, go ahead. Ok, mostly teasing you. Go ahead and do it, since you seem to be picking up on signals well. 1
Woop1337 Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 Make sure the environment is comfortable. If she really likes you, like you have described, then you can't really go wrong. Just go for it. Preferably not during the movie marathon, you have arranged. Don't you think the movie marathon is too much? One movie is enough, but that's you man.
eddyctv Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 I say you text her "i am going to kiss you when you walk thru my door tonight"...then follow thru when she gets there. I've done this plenty of times and it's always worked. Then you dont have to worry about the "timing" during a movie. Just announce it "ok its time to kiss" like a joke haha...
Author Dude420 Posted August 8, 2013 Author Posted August 8, 2013 Thanks a lot guys for the responses and tips, I'll be sure to try something the next time she comes over. As for the movie marathon, just to clarify, we're watching a trilogy, but it's only one movie per night that she comes over, not movies all day sort of marathon lol, we're not that crazy . We'll likely see each other again when it's both our day off next week unless something comes up. We usually do activities first before settling down and relaxing (such as a movie).
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