ljolt20 Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 Hello. I stumbled across this site and after scrolling some rules, I guess I'm in the right spot. 6 months ago I finally got the nerve to ask out my supervisor at work. Easily one of the most beautiful girls I had ever met. Strictly on looks, way out of my league. Suprisingly, she said yes. Now, going in there were several redflags (kid, psycho ex who she still lived with, supervisor at a job where we couldnt openly date), but we went with it anyways. Things took off. We hit it off, and everything progressed quite well, physically especially. About 5 months into it, I was offered a job that tripled my current pay, and quite frankly, a bigger step up than I deserved. The downside, I had to move 4 hours away. After much talking, and lots of tears, we decided we would give it try, even after she admitted that if it wasnt for me that she would be back with her abusive ex. 2 weeks after I moved, things went sharply downhill. Texts. /calls/skype sessions went from nonstop, to a little, to a day or two without contact. Finally it boiled down to "she's not one to work on relationships, and not being able to see me was tough " and she broke itoff. A mutual friend told me she said she didnt feel a romantic connection anymore. Im crushed. I would do anything to keep her around, or get her back. Especiwlly away from that psycho ex. I feel like I have tried everything and have run out of options. Is there anything I can do....or is it done for good? Thanks for any help guys
New User Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 Enjoy your newfound freedom. There's no talking your way out of dumped, and I'd strongly suspect based on what you've said here that she never really stopped seeing the other guy. It isn't your job to "rescue" her from anything but a fire- and that's only if you're a fireman. There's plenty of single gals out there- go find you one. Good luck and happy hunting.
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