EC Posted November 3, 2004 Posted November 3, 2004 Yeah so i feel dumb now... Here's the update. So I call him last night and Bluntly ask if he was still talking to Ms. California and he said what are you talking about? He's like I haven't spoken to her for 2 years. So I relate the story to him and what his brother told me and he said his brother must have the anems confused and that Jennifer is definitely the girl from Tampa. W/e so after that I felt dumba dn still pissed so I asked why he was talking to the girl from Tampa anyways? Why did he need to speak to her when he had me. Now he got really frustrated at this point and said what is your deal tonight? He said fine I will give you your answer so he says he is going to call Jennifer and for me to stay on the line quiet as a mouse and just listen. So he calls and I'm going to sum up their conversation... Her: Hello? Him: Hey...How are you holding up? Her: Better today..I went to the funeral two days ago and I start therapy tomorrow. Him: Did your boyfriend finally grow the balls to go with you to the funeral? Her: Yeah..He's better now.it's just been hard on all of us. Blah blah blah so turns out her mother died in a car accident and her boyfriend was driving and my bf (which is her ex) was close to her mom so she called for comfort and to get advice from my bf. Understandable because they were friends and for a guy my babe is an awesome listener. The girls bf didnt want to go to the funeral because he felt guilty for driving and thought the family hated him but he went...whatever point is I'm relieved. Phew! He said you need to relax babe and just let me Love you! Then in that same night I fell in love with him all over again. A little history on my brother..he's Bi-polar, add, and nuts. Problem child, no father figure, and thinks he runs things. Very mean sometimes but can be your best friend the next. It's crazy. Well he was having an episode last night and started bad mouthing me while I was on the phone with my bf and my bf said to please put him on the phone. I said no theres no point no one can reach him. He said put him on the phone. So i did and my brother went into another room and went off on him and i picked up the cordless and spied in on the convo and all I heard was : BF:"That girl is your sister and she loves you and sacrifices everything for you. You need to start showing her a little more respect. That is the love of my life and when she feels pain I feel pain and it needs to stop. Now you can tell me what you want but I am going to be here for a while so you need to start shaping up." I hung up and did a dance. Then a couple minutes later my bro came back and APOLOGIZED to me (wow) and said he was going to try to change with me. OK No amount of cops, counselors, parents, teachers, or family members have managed that and in a couple mintues my BF got through to him! I was shocked. I asked what did you say..? He said I can't tell you it's a guy thing. And right there I fell in love with him all over again.
surfergirl Posted November 3, 2004 Posted November 3, 2004 I'm so happy for you. Now, I know you're glad to get that out of the way and move on the "good stuff".
Author EC Posted November 3, 2004 Author Posted November 3, 2004 Sorry I know that last post was really long. I had to vent in a good way!! Heck yeah move on to the good stuff..I'm going to see him for a week...whoo! WeEk long nookie.
Naive Posted November 3, 2004 Posted November 3, 2004 Well at least you got things clear I do feel bad for the Tampa girl, with her loss Anyways, if he ever talks to the Cali girl let me know and I'll go pay her a little visit !!!!
Pocky Posted November 3, 2004 Posted November 3, 2004 This is a good example to others - instead of jumping to conclusions and believing what others say about your boyfriend go straight to the source. I'm glad it turned out well - I figured it would. The way you write about him it has always seemed apparent that he loves you.
Stone Posted November 3, 2004 Posted November 3, 2004 OH What a nice guy you have, that's nice what he did with your brother and his ex, your a lucky girl EC
Author EC Posted November 3, 2004 Author Posted November 3, 2004 Don't Hate ...appreciate!! jkjkj I know I'm lucky but good **** like him don't happen to me and stay lol ..so thats why I'm all trippy about him. I've never felt this before so I'm a little hesitant as to if it's real and if it's really happening to me? u know? Thanks for listening though. Even though it turns out ok I really appreciate you guys getting me through my crazy "moments" my rollercoaster up's and downs.
UCFKevin Posted November 3, 2004 Posted November 3, 2004 However. This seems to happen every week. Something new comes up that you freak out about. Maybe it's something subconsciously going on, but you're ALWAYS worrying about something. What gives?
Author EC Posted November 3, 2004 Author Posted November 3, 2004 I'm in love and I'm scared so I flip out about stuff...thats what gives lol
UCFKevin Posted November 3, 2004 Posted November 3, 2004 Why are you scared? Just let it be. Stop finding reasons to freak out and just try to be happy.
Author EC Posted November 4, 2004 Author Posted November 4, 2004 I kno.I kno. I'm trying to think more positively.
Stone Posted November 4, 2004 Posted November 4, 2004 Every time I read this post I start singing that frigging song " I wish they all could be California Girls" It won't stop!!
Author EC Posted November 4, 2004 Author Posted November 4, 2004 OH no!! lol Look what you did...get it out..get it out!! lol She's not even really from California though guys but I had to change it just in case someone happened to pass on by this little website. lol
Naive Posted November 4, 2004 Posted November 4, 2004 Originally posted by EtErNaLlYCoNfUsEd OH no!! lol Look what you did...get it out..get it out!! lol She's not even really from California though guys but I had to change it just in case someone happened to pass on by this little website. lol So then I can't keep an eye on her for you!!!
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