MrTurk Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 (edited) I had met a woman through OLD, we met in person...everything seemed to go pretty good. Talked on the phone a few times after that...but she kind of disappeared once I hit her up for a 2nd date. Few months later she calls me out of the blue....asks if I'm free during the week, and invites me over for dinner and a movie to her place. After we eat...we move to the living room, I sit down on the couch, as she puts the movie in. She then walks over, and sits on the floor....on the opposite side of the couch...not even near me. Why would she sit on the floor?? Is it me...or is that just sort of weird under the circumstances?? I know everyone is going to ask...Why didnt you move down to the floor with her?? I just thought that was odd....so I just stayed on the couch, being more intrigued to see if she was going to stay there all night. She even got up to make us popcorn....gave me my own bowl....she had her own bowl...and she returned to the floor. Edited August 7, 2013 by MrTurk
LBean Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 That's really odd, doesn't sound like an amazing sign. If you were uncomfortable maybe the other end of the couch, but the floor? The only comforting thing I can think to say is perhaps she always sits on the floor. I do, I have a couch for others, but I plant it on the floor - always. Though in this scenario I would explain that at least. How was conversation? Was there any? How did it end?
Author MrTurk Posted August 8, 2013 Author Posted August 8, 2013 The conversation between us was ok. But the movie she rented was terrible. Her sitting on the floor+really bad movie(Hurt Locker) just made it an awkward night. I dont remember who contacted who last after that night...but whatever may have been there fizzled out. I dont know if maybe she was just looking for a hookup that night then maybe changed her mind?? IDK
TheGuard13 Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 She either just wanted to watch the movie on the floor, or she wanted to see if you would come sit with her in order to gauge your interest in her.
Author MrTurk Posted August 8, 2013 Author Posted August 8, 2013 (edited) LIES!!! You thought The Hurt Locker was terrible!? Well I wouldn't sit next to you either! No I'm kidding. Anyway, I don't think she was looking for ah ookup, although she may have been, I think it's more she was just bored and looking for a little company for a few hours and made that very clear by sitting on the floor. Would you invite a guy to your house that you met 2-3 months ago, for just one hour? I know theres exceptions, and I am the last one to make everything about sex...but that scenario just seems to be what it was to me. I am not flirty and forward like most guys are. Especially guys in that situation. And I am a firm believer that if the guy doesnt get the ball rolling....many women(if they were looking for some action) lose interest in him Edited August 8, 2013 by MrTurk
MercuryMorrison1 Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 I question her motives... I mean why would she ignore you for months after one date, but then call you out of the blue all of a sudden? I don't mean to sound like a prick, but I think she's making you second best if you catch my drift.
LBean Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 Here's my honest opinion... If she has you scratching your head this much after only two dates... She's not worth it. She's not sending warm fuzzy feelings, and she's not telling you to beat it. It doesn't matter what her motives are, there are people who won't give you a good mind phukk, go find one and let this one go. I wouldn't waste my time.
gaius Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 Just tell her to sit on the couch with you next time. Boom, test passed. 1
spiderowl Posted August 9, 2013 Posted August 9, 2013 Sounds to me like she wanted to be able to face you to talk to you. It's early days yet, so why would she want to be too close when she hardly knows you? I prefer to keep a distance when I'm getting to know a guy. It doesn't mean we will always be at a distance, it just means I'm figuring out whether it's a good idea we move forward into a relationship or not. She invited you to her home so that's very good. If you build a relationship with her, and she feels it's going well, then gradually she will become more comfortable being near you and you will sense that change too.
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