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To a mental health expert...Can I ask have you considered it?

 

All I want is 1 conversation, tell her I want to spend the rest of my life with her.

 

And leave it there.

 

Frederickkk, mate, you really aren't doing yourself any favours here and it only reinforces my question 'why do you continue to post on this forum?'

 

You quote someone asking you a question and then proceed to totally ignore said question.

 

Why bother?

 

You never answer questions and only post your own questions that you never want to hear the answer to.

 

Even if you genuinely aren't a troll, you're beginning to act in a similar manner to one.

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I am too wrapped up in what can only be called unspeakable loss.

 

I want one opportunity to sit down talk to her and try again.

 

That is all I ask for. To say I have learnt from mistakes. As each day goes by, if she misses me, then she will appear somewhere.

 

Each time she tried to leave, I'd ****ing scream at her not to.

 

Posts above, I will answer them thoroughly in a bit, just cooking dinner

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gut says there will be another go.

 

i can't believe it. not properly.

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if someone here left a skype address we could skype and talk about this.

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Frederikkk, I would gladly skype with you, but for two reasons:

 

One, I actually don't have skype and don't talk with it, to anyone.

 

Two, you'd transfer your obsessive, stalking-like, deluded behaviour from her to me, would never leave me alone, I'd take out an order against you and so the vicious cycle would repeat ad infinitum

 

I've actually had it happen.....

 

Seek Help.

True, honest-to-goodness, psychiatric help.

You ARE deluded, you ARE obsessed and this is not a 'Gut Feeling' it's an inner desire manifesting as a truth for you.

 

Give it up and ask to be referred.

 

You need help, lots of it, and you need it now.

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I'm not getting what I want and it really ****s me off.

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She is not coming back. The fact that she issued a restraining order against you shows that not only is she not still in love with you - she's scared of you. Once you disappear from her life, she's not going to take the chance of re-opening the craziness by seeking you out.

 

If you are not a troll (your username alone kind of suggests to me that you are :confused:), then you've been given all of the advice that you need. You need to seek help.

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