donmanbassani Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 my girlfriend went to a german university for a month for a summer school. shes staying at a halls. obviously shes in a new city, where they have a university freshers which involves a lot of drinking, obviously there are opportunities for cheating and stuff. we spoke and i told her that i think we shouldnt speak whilst shes away, as i want her to have a fun experience, do what she likes and have a good time. she was a bit unhappy about this but i think she appreciated it. about 3 days before she left she said shed message me once whilst away. HOWEVER, the day before she left i saw her and she said shed call me when she got back. cheating is not my concern, as no matter what shes gonna do what she wants when away. but im worried i made a bad decision; I dont want us to completely distance ourselves from each other over this month. so im wondering shall i now talk to her? its been like a week, the longest in a LONG time. im a bit stubborn and i do believe in sticking to my word, but do you think its actually dangerous for the relationship and will ruin it?? thankss )
Philosoraptor Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 You told her you didn't want to speak while she was away and now you're worried about her not speaking with you? No, talking with your partner won't ruin a relationship. If you want to take it back and have communication sparingly all you can do is let her know. She will either agree to it or won't.
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