Is he really over me? I still love him even if he thought I didn't

[worldexploded]

It's been almost three months since my ex and I ended it. He finally posted something on his tumblr stating how he felt about it.

 

I had been struggling with how to find the money to return to school, didn't have my license at the time and was working crappy retail jobs. I wanted to make things better but he just told me he couldn't wait on me anymore.

 

I felt like he was expecting too much from me even though I to do more for myself.

 

He also sucked at speaking his mind. I feel like a lot of our issues could have been avoided if he actually talked to me instead of insisting we text it.

 

When we broke up I didn't say much I just said "whatever" left. I didn't show much emotion. I thought I did the right thing.

 

I haven't talked to him since the day we broke up.

 

Here are excerpts of what he said:

 

"At the start of this summer I broke up with the women I had been dating for a year (and one month). It hurt to do it especially to a women I cared for, still had feelings for, and only wished the best for. In my mind she was stuck in a place where I could not help and may have been holding her back.

 

My ex had not finished college like she originally planned when we first meet. She also did not have her drivers licenses and was moving from job to job due to them cutting hours."

 

"I became tired of contributing the majority of the relationship,and becoming a tool of labor not to her but to her family. I also knew our families were different and we were raised different."

 

After we broke up. I drove home tearful because the women I loved a few days earlier became a raging, cold heartless bitch that showed no emotion.

 

I found out that most the people I knew did not care for my ex.

 

This hurt more because

 

1. It means that most people Lied to me about her

 

2.They did not understand how shy she was

 

3. they may have been just saying that to make me feel better when in fact… it did not.

 

I hope my ex does well in life, there is always a little place in my heart for her, and I hope she finds a great man that will take care of her.

 

 

By the way I'm 21 and he's 20

Edited August 7, 2013 by worldexploded

[Sneaky]

Honestly my first thought was that it's kind of messed up that he's posting that on his blog. Secondly you should probably unfollow him, it doesn't matter whether he is over you or not if both of you don't want to get back together it doesn't pay to get worked up over.

[Misfortune]

Honestly my first thought was that it's kind of messed up that he's posting that on his blog. Secondly you should probably unfollow him, it doesn't matter whether he is over you or not if both of you don't want to get back together it doesn't pay to get worked up over.

 

He's kinda cruel with talking about you like that to the world.