jesse93 Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 well, to be fair i did what you want to do now, i tried contacting her and letting her back into my life, and the only thing i got from it was a burn it hurts even more now, she doesn't want to be with me she doesn't care to try and fix things i tried reconciling but it didn't work she had her mind set one not wanting to be with me and the fact that i thought i could fix it made me feel stupid, think about what she said before she broke up with you my ex said things along the lines of "I had plans to break up with you for a couple months now, all of my friends were telling me to break up with you, I don't think this was ever meant to be" She said many things like this, and yet i still believed maybe just maybe i could win her back i'll get her to fall in love with me again. Nope didn't happen I'm in the friendzone now, I love her she wants me to be a friend. just be careful with the steps you take, having a girl in your life after the break up not only stops them from missing you, but it honestly puts you in a spot where she begins to lose those feelings for you completely. Maybe this is just my case, but I'm telling you man, its not a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.
reddragon588 Posted August 8, 2013 Posted August 8, 2013 ...until the next time the urge to communicate emerges. I've resisted it, the thought persists, and then I communicate. Nothing wrong with that. Don't go overboard, nothing excessive, but I know that it's been wonderful for me to let someone know how I feel all along, even when he wasn't ready to communicate. Now he is, and he said he can tell how much I love him. That is priceless to me! He'd never know if I hadn't reached out every once in a while. It sounds to me like you have not truly moved on. He said he can tell how much you love him. He never said he loves you back. So he knows that you are still there as his backup in case he ever needs you. Don't be someone's backup/fallback.
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