lovesucks76 Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 I think I've become bitter and not better since my break up. Today is day 4 and I feel bitter towards everything around me. I have no interest in anything. It's like someone pulled the 'happiness' out of my life. I don't want to hang out with anyone, other girls are not interesting to me and I lose my patience easily. It's almost like I want the world to leave me alone to my thoughts. I've tried every method to forget her and it's not working. I suck at this and miss her so much!!
Philosoraptor Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 It's day 4, your emotions still haven't settled. It's a long process with a lot of ups and downs. You can't expect to get over it that quickly. Stop focusing on moving on and instead focus on making yourself happy. Find a new hobby, join a club, watch a movie, play a game, spank your monkey... doesn't matter what it is, just do things to make yourself happy. Indifference takes time, so make the best of the time you have now and in time she won't matter anymore.
JDPT Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 It's perfectly fine, you are going through the grieving process. You will feel as if you are strapped to this emotional roller coaster but also keep in mind that you have the option of getting off the ride. Find peace and forgive your ex that is one of the ways of letting go off anger. And no, I didn't meant to contact her, this peace and forgiveness you have to find within yourself.
Author lovesucks76 Posted August 7, 2013 Author Posted August 7, 2013 I hear you and thanks for the comment. It's not easy...yesterday I went for a run, went to the gym, worked late, met a friend for dinner and stayed super busy but after all of that and during all of that she was front and center in my mind. I really am pissed off that I allowed this to happen. I allowed my heart to get crushed It really makes me never want to date anyone again...it really does!
Author lovesucks76 Posted August 7, 2013 Author Posted August 7, 2013 Forgiving my ex is really difficult right now to be honest. I had given her a chance about a month ago when I told her to please let me go if she was not committed to us because I was falling for her and she said...I'm falling for you too...so I let my heart go free and allowed all these emotions in which was great and made me the happiest man in the world until this past weekend when I broke things off because I felt she was not into it as much. She said maybe we would be better as friends but she didn't want to lose me or our friendship. What is really strange here is that she was always making plans for us to do things and even after we broke it off she said "I was looking forward to going camping with you, are we still doing that next month? I told her " You just tore my heart out a few minutes ago and now you're asking me this?, how can you be so insensitive and so callous?" she was pissed at my comment and started walking out of the restaurant. Am i wrong here??
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