zues Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 I broke no contact today for the second time its been 9 days since my new attempt and i broke it. maybe this is my last try and maybe this will destroy the hope that i still have that is holding me back? im so depressed with all of this!
FLBuccaneer Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 I broke no contact today for the second time its been 9 days since my new attempt and i broke it. maybe this is my last try and maybe this will destroy the hope that i still have that is holding me back? im so depressed with all of this! Care to share more details about the relationship? Did you break up or visa versa?
Author zues Posted August 7, 2013 Author Posted August 7, 2013 we were seeing each other for 6 months, long distance, she didnt want a serious relationship because we live to far from each other. so i couldnt go on without commitment so i put full no contact into swing. its been 9 days and i slipped up and messaged her. see i still have hope, maybe this is the kick in the ass that i need?
FLBuccaneer Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 I'm assuming that she hasn't responded? Just stay true to your word and she will respect you more by following what you advised her to do. Also she could be letting you stew in your decision which is clearly eating you up. Don't fall into that trap of contacting because you are only going to get more upset when you don't hear back. It has a snowball effect, so my advice is to steer clear from that danger.
Author zues Posted August 7, 2013 Author Posted August 7, 2013 see she said she had feelings for me but didnt want a relationship. i didnt send the message to long ago. ive been thinking a lot about her and im hoping that the time apart would make her miss me. so the way i see it if she doesnt reply or she does and i dont get what i want out of it. i know she is gone forever so i can go on without having hope holding me back?
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