Myonenonly Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 (edited) Well I was dating a man for 7 months and the firts 4 month were great the. For the last 3 mOnths he didn't have time and was very "busy" he only had time for me once a month... Note: he made it clear since the beginning he was NOT ready for a relatioship but I stayed even though i wanted more of him i settled for what he was offereing, because I like him a lot and he said I still have a lot of plans with you... I was excited because he was including me in his life.. Anyways fast forward to 7 months he won't even call me his girlfriend and he's to busy for me... I told him once that I wanst happy and I wanted tot move on.. He said he understood and If we could still be friends I said I need time to think about it. For me it was the end I even cried because I really want him in my life. A fews days later he said he would like to still be Friends and go to the movies and do stuff the fact that I wasn't even expecting him to contact me Made me happy that he texted me in my head he missed me and maybe wanted to take things to the next level.. So I said yeah ok fine. So we went out the following weekend and was great.. We were back to square one and after a 2 months of not seeing any improvement I told Him again I'm not happy I can't do this anymore he again asked if he could still be friedns I said no because I have feelings for you and you don't take me seriously...I didnt contact him for 2.5 weeks.. So what is a relatioship in my culture being in a relatioship is being boyfriend and girlfriend I mean I wasn't thinking about marrying or moving in toghther or having kids... Or wanting him to be a father to my child! I want him to say and proud to say yeah this is my girl my woman you know and treat me as such! I had so much love to give but with out this I just couldn't give him my all.. Maybe he lost interest because I wasn't 100% in it! So what is a relationship? Edited August 7, 2013 by Myonenonly Minor repairs
Author Myonenonly Posted August 7, 2013 Author Posted August 7, 2013 I miss him so much...I'm so temptEd to text him guys!!!or go see him and tell him that In person. Even though he wasn't there all the time when I finnaly would see him it made me the happiest girl ever! But when I wasn't with him I made all these scenarios in my head! I guess is fault! What should I do ?
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