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Relationships and Games, I feel like they will never be seperated? is that so!!!

mehim

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mehim Established Member

mehim

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does every relationship has to be like a game. im sure some dont, but it seems like me and my bf will never stop with the game BS, or at least he wont, i will be able to not play along but he wont stop in the first place.

 

i have told him many times y u gotta play games, its been long enough to stop the games, its been couple of years, but i think that he will never grow up, or at least for now. in a way i dont blame him, he is only 21, but still it doesnt mean that he should keep on acting like that.

 

there is so much pride, and i actually in a way believe that its not really him playing games, it might be just his personality. he treats his guy friends like its a game sometimes also. i just dont get it, or kinda of do.

 

i hope im not getting to confusing here, but i was just wondering is it just my relationship, that is always dealing with the games no matter how long it has been?

 

does any of you that have been in a LTR keep on playing the games? does it have to do with age? does it have to do with personality? what does it depend on? will it ever end, although im sure it does, but when?

Jilly10340 Established Member

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You say that maybe it's not him, it's just his personality. But his personality IS him. That's who he is.

 

No, a relationship shouldn't ever be a game. After the initial chase is over, the games should stop. Especially after years into the relationship.

 

The best guys that I've been with, who really loved me, never played games with me.

hugznkisses21 Established Member

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Men men men....they are all immarture....personally i think there should be no games in a great realtionship but humans are humans and by nature we toy with emotions and "play " off eachother sometimes to get a rise out of people or something that we want...a reaction of somesort!...."play" = game.

 

I dont think that it necessarily means desaster but I think age has a lot to do with it. My bf is almost 24 and he is quite childish and immature at time....important thing is that it isnt ALL the time. but be careful.

 

Sometimes you have to know his personality and I think once u get to know someone you know how to approach them etc....

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