help, 20 month relationship over and don't know what to do next. advice please?!!!

[peach04]

It's official, my relationship with my boyfriend of twenty months is over. I have done the crying thing and listening to sad love songs. It hurts like crazy and yet i'm still confused. I'm the one who ended it but i don't want it to be over. The thing is that we didn't talk to each other like we used to and when we did it was like we didn't feel like talking. We were growing apart. it hasn't been a day and i don't know what to do next. i'm confused and deeply hurt. He was my first love and i hoped we would be with each other forever. can some one please help me through this.

[SadAndLonely]

I'm confused. You ended it but now you want to know what to do? If you really want it ended, then you have to go through the pain and trust that it will go away in time, because it will. If you don't want it ended, then you need to call him pronto and explain that you made a huge mistake and try to work on your relationship.

[head/heels]

read .........Men are from Mars, women are from venus........and make sure he reads it too...it will work wonders....

RELATIONSHIPS ARENT SUPPOSED TO BE EASY! THEY TAKE WORK AND COPPING OUT IS JUST IMMATURE SINCE EVERY SINGLE RELATIONSHIP WILL HAVE PROBLEMS AND IF YOU RUN ONCE IT ISNT FUN OR HUNKY DORY, then YOU WILL RUN FROM EVERY RELATIONSHIP!!

 

MY EX DID SAME THING>>>>>only never spoke about what she didnt like or come back..yet...but she will and it will be too late.....i am already talking to a cool girl that i can tell is a piece of work and is definitely more of a catch than my ex!

[head/heels]

RIGHT!