joel Posted November 3, 2004 Posted November 3, 2004 i now i am new to all these girls-attraction and flirting part -never mind dating. but right after class i chit chatted with this askin if she ever went to the same HS as i did, all i am askin is how often i mean in numbers terms should a guy initate the conversation and be freindly with a girl before he stops and moves on to the next girl or says ahhh forgot about it. i mean i be like to this to a gal- "so what do u think about the test hard hey" or i say "so what other courses are u takin",.. somethin like that make small talk. b/c we all now that most of the time guys have to be the initator to the girl. never mind even dating- i have to start the attration and flirting and communication part with the girl first. yea late bloomer. i wish i had good guy buds who were good with the ladies so i could ask these type of questions.
Merin Posted November 3, 2004 Posted November 3, 2004 Is there a set time limit to how much you invest in getting to know someone I think if you approach things with a different mind set, you will do better... meaning... talk to girls you have an interest in getting to know on a "friend" level. IF something more comes of your talking to them then all good.. IF not then nothing is lost.. you've possibly made a new friend and have a new "connection" to meeting thier girlfriends that you may have a romantic interest in.
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