ohiite Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 (edited) So me and my Ex dated for like 6 months total... everything was good in the beginning and up till about the fifth month. Everything changed after she graduated college and after a big competition she was in which she didn't place and took really hard. We only saw each other once a week because of a little distance and the fact that she didnt have a car. She never initiated anything we did, i asked to hang out all the time i made the phone calls ect. In those 5 month things were amazing. we would text all the time, when we hung out it was perfect, and physically we couldnt keep our hands off each other. when she came back from her competition she stopped texting a lot, she wouldnt look at me the same, our convos were dry, she hung out with her friends more often and she just seemed like she wasnt into it anymore and she wouldnt say i love you unless i did. There were some days she was completely normal but even then i felt like it was an act. she brought up how distant she became with me and said it wasnt me and that she really does love me but that made me even more skeptical. We ended up speaking about in a couple days later over phone and she told me she doesnt feel a spark anymore, she needs a break to see if she would "miss me," which set me off the cliff and i ended up breaking up with her the next day. After about a week i hit her up telling her i made a mistake and then we should make it work but she says shes over it she doesnt want it anymore. Then about 2 weeks later we meet in person. This time we spoke i let her know i jumped the gun breaking it off and that i still love her and i want her and no one else. she tells me she did all this because shes not ready for a relationship right now, she doesnt know what she wants, and she also said that she wants me but not right now, wtf? that meeting went well overall, i made her laugh and we set off on good terms. two days later i text her, which was my biggest mistake. i asked her whether or not her saying i love you a week prior to our break up if she meant it and she avoided the answer. i kept pushing it and she ended up saying no she doesnt love me. i said she lied to me and led me on.... then she responded with im a kid and i need to grow the **** up. Now its been about a week and i havent spoken to her. she deleted me off all social networks. Some extra info; she is my relative's wife's sister. My question is whether what she says is true or is it that she just doesnt like me anymore for some weird reason. THIS ALL HAPPENED OUT OF NOWHERE!! Should I wait a while to make peace with her and get on good terms? Edited August 7, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Philosoraptor Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 She's made her decision and you have to respect it, that's all there is. Nothing you will do will change the fact that she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you anymore. She got distant and after things ended she didn't want them to start back up again. You can keep begging and getting shot down, or keep your dignity by letting go and moving on.
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