utwonderwoman Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t50096/ Here is what was previously going on. But from there, he just broke up with me again. Something about an email that I sent his mother. So I called her and to make a long story short, I found out that she has been telling him all these things that she wasn't sure of when we were dating. This is after we all thought we were going to work it out. What do I do now? She says that she loves me and they all had hopes that we would work it out. What do I do???? I need damage control. Please help me!!!!
beejsea2 Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 I'm not real sure what to tell you but if his mother "loved" you, I can't see her telling her son things about you that she had problems with. Sounds like he's trying to find all these different reasons to stay broken up with you.
Author utwonderwoman Posted November 2, 2004 Author Posted November 2, 2004 he agreed to date and take it slow. he even told his mother how great our first few dates had been. she told him what her concerns were before we agreed to get back together. why does it have to hurt so much?
beejsea2 Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 I wish I could answer that for you...you know that I'm going through my own break-up. My ex hasn't even bothered to contact me about a item that he left behind that is very important to his family. Just take one day at a time...If you love someone set it free, if it comes back to you it's yours, if it doesn't it wasn't meant to be.
ltomlinson81 Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 You should not be involved with his family while you are apart. She is his mother and will tell him whatever she wants. It is not fair for you to expect her to do anything different.
Author utwonderwoman Posted November 2, 2004 Author Posted November 2, 2004 I didn't expect her to do anything different. but the concerns she had, she never talked to me about. that just hurt. I think she is willing to help, I will have to wait and see.
bluechocolate Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 You should forget about the mother - it has nothing to do with her - it's just an excuse.
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