EpicCentre Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 If you've been dating a girl for 2 months, when is the best time to tell her? Do you bring it up or say something related to the subject, wait for her reply and then go from there? I'm a very popular guy and had other gfs before and for some reason it never got to sex. Back in my HS schools years, we would break up very early, I got get bored faster or I just didn't feel like having sex. I was sort of a flirt back then and liked more going to parties than being in a long-term relationship. The truth is no one except my parents and two of my closest friends knows I'm still a virgin.
Author EpicCentre Posted August 6, 2013 Author Posted August 6, 2013 (edited) It's different this time. I feel there are many things we like and I do want to know her better. I feel college is way different than HS. I just graduated this year several months ago and this is the first I've felt strongly towards a girl. Edited August 6, 2013 by EpicCentre
fortyninethousand322 Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 Hold old are you? Less than 21 you should have no issue telling her at this point. If you're older than 21, I would refrain from saying anything until the two of you are at a point when you're having regular sex and you're comfortable talking about sexual or relationship history with each other. For me personally, that would be years down the road.
Author EpicCentre Posted August 6, 2013 Author Posted August 6, 2013 Hold old are you? Less than 21 you should have no issue telling her at this point.I'm 18 years old and a freshman in college. Say I was wondering do college girls like that too? Popular guys like me that yet are still virgins.
fortyninethousand322 Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 I'm 18 years old and a freshman in college. Say I was wondering do college girls like that too? Popular guys like me that yet are still virgins. Better than being an unpopular guy who's a virgin. But seriously, if you're both 18 it's no big deal at all. Lots of 18 year olds are virgins. Very common place. And, for the record, I'm one of the more pessimistic posters here. So when I say it's no big deal, you can take that to the bank.
Ryan R. Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 I'm 18 years old and a freshman in college. Say I was wondering do college girls like that too? Popular guys like me that yet are still virgins. If you're popular and attractive, I find that girls would really love to take your virginity.
ltjg45 Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 I'm 18 years old and a freshman in college. Say I was wondering do college girls like that too? Popular guys like me that yet are still virgins. If you are 18, go ahead. Some 18-year olds is still virgins at this time so she shouldn't take offense to it. Of course, not telling has its benefits but, if I was you, I would tell her and see how she responds. If she really gets annoyed by it, good chance she isn't the one you want to stick with for much longer.
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