What's the most obnoxious thing a SO has ever done to you?

[serial muse]

It's infidelity-related in my case too...not really hilarious though. There were so many obnoxious, even cruel things that my exH did in the crazy days just before my discovery of his long-term affair (everything from outright insulting my family to deliberately and passive-aggressively ordering the most expensive items on the menu when my mother was taking us out to dinner for Thanksgiving). Maybe this was his way of trying to get caught. Or, you know, just being an ass.

 

But the one that takes the cake has to be the time he told me he was staying at "a friend's" house while I was away on a longish trip. Of course it turned out that the "friend" was his OW (although when I returned I was still about 48 hours away from figuring that out). The super-obnoxious part is that when I came back all excited to see him I actually stayed there in that house with him one night, unaware (she was there too, in the room next door), and he totally let me.

 

I still cannot believe how shxtty that was, to this day. Who does that?? SMH

[miss_jaclynrae]

Men are obnoxious in general.

 

 

As women probably are to them.