My next move with this girl?? If any...

[GB25]

Hey everyone thanks for reading..

 

So I met this girl a couple weeks back..she is 21 yrs old college student on summer break. I am 30 yrs old have a job.life in order..blah blah age really isnt relevant to the story but just wanted to give you a background.

 

We texted for a couple days and set up to meet last friday for dinner and a couple drinks..dinner was great, conversation was excellent she couldnt stop touching me, complimenting me..and telling me how pleasantly surprised she was by the way things were going.

 

After dinner we went to my friends bar downtown and things got very touchy and we ended up hand in hand with a lot of kissing..she was all over me throughout the next hour or so..and the making out continued..I mentioned going back to my place for a one last drink because she had to wake up early for work and we live 5 minutes away and she agreed

 

We get back to my place and we pick up where we left off..we were both pretty drunk and after some making out she says she has to go home wishes she could stay but has to wake up early and she goes home..10 minutes later i get a text saying how she was so happy we met and had an amazing night...i replied and she kept saying how well we clicked and she hoped she would see me again..and she wanted to see me again the next night..i know its goin kinda fast but whatever

 

This is where things get confusing...the next day around noon i text her to see how shes feeling and if work is ok...she replies shes hungover and keeps the convo short..its ok shes at work..then later in the night i ask her whats her plan for the night..and she avoids the question by replying with something completely different..i thought it was odd..but ok..then she asks what my plans are and i said "not sure, but if you wanna meet up let me know" and once again replies with something that has nothing to do with my question..so i chalk it up to shes busy or has another date and just doesnt wanna tell me..who knows i dont hear from her the rest of the night

 

I let a day pass with no communication i figured maybe she had a change of heart..so sunday i reached out and she said she wanted to see me sometime this week..and i said me too and to tell me what day works for her..and that was it..she didnt answer and i didnt push it..just figured she is seeing someone else bc thats usually the case with shady behavior so i let it go..and was done initiating..

 

This morning..i wake up to a text saying " morning, doll..i hope you have a great day"..with a kissy face at the end..cpl hours later i respond and we chit chat for a little and i said let me know if you still wanna hang out this week..she replies " lol okay" ??? and that was that

 

Am i over analysing and should chill out? or let this one go..if she was completely not interested why text me this morning?? i dont know maybe im thinking to much into it..please any advice would help..

 

P.S. And for those who say call and dont text I tried calling after she said "lol okay" and she didnt answer and texted me that shes at work..

Edited August 6, 2013 by GB25

[RebelWithoutACause]

I think age is a factor in your story because she's being pretty immature: from being all over you on your first date, to ignoring your invites after that, to not answering your call, to finally replying to you asking her out with "lol okay".. But what do you expect from a 21 yo? I think you'd spare yourself a lot of headaches if you don't deal with someone so immature. Ultimately it's a waste of time.

[GB25]

Thats what im thinking as well..plus I saw some suspect behavior from her when we were at the bar..

 

I think the move here is to just let it go..my gut tells me her wishy washy ways are bc she is seeing someone else.

[GB25]

any more opinions/advice would be greatly appreciated...confused here

[TaraMaiden]

Read this and understand things a whole lot better.

[GB25]

lol thanks tara