Has anyone thoughts on my situation with ex girlfriend?

[DownNtOut]

i poured my heart out to my exgirlfriend during the week. I told her i loved her and only wanted to be with her. She began to cry and told me another ex was looking to be with her again. She told me she needed time to think as she wasnt ready. i said that was ok that if i didnt hear from her, that i wud know.

 

she apoligised for sleeping with me 3 weeks ago. It felt to me like it wasnt a '****' it was tender. she stayed in bed with me till lunchtime. It really mixed me up.

 

 

She text me yesterday and said she had gone to dinner with the other ex again and decided to try going out with him for a month to see how it goes.

 

she said she didnt want to leave me hanging on. told me i was brave to drive to her town and put myself out there. she said she loved me but only in a 'friendship' 'companionship' way.

 

 

i text her back that, id miss her. and to take care.

 

i unfriended her on fb and deleted her number.

 

 

were her tears just pity?

 

any comments appreciated

 

i dont understand.. such a mess

[Philosoraptor]

You've made the same thread like 5 times already.

 

You may have been a rebound and she has made it clear that she wants to pursue her ex instead of being with you.

 

Not much else can be said. Stop contacting her and move on.

[KathyM]

I'm sorry, but it sounds like a relationship with her is not in the cards for you. She has decided you are not the one, and she is trying to let you down gently. I'm sure she has some feelings for you, but they are not enough to continue a relationship with you.

[Louise0203]

Why would you want to be with someone, who is messing you around like that? Trust me, I have been there, telling you there is another ex involved? It is very unkind. If you honestly want her back you have done the right thing, cutting her off will make her realise what she really wants, and she will probably come crawling back, but if she doesn't then get on with your life, concentrate on you.