Eddie Edirol Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 Stop trying to contact her and start moving on from her now before you find out that she could be seeing someone else. You never know if she was sneaking talking to someone for the past few weeks-if she is this immature. 1
Eddie Edirol Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 I asked her politely many times to remove it and she wouldn't. She never let's me take pictures of her. Refuses every time I try I tell her I just want a picture of us to look at when I miss her at work. Yet she pulls this kind of stuff. I don't get her sometimes. Like I said: Yes it was wrong to swear at her (I was not using the swears as name calling). It was her laughing and not taking me seriously that lead to me using swears. She wouldnt let you take any pics of you two as a couple? Thats kinda weird. 1
ja123 Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 Hi OP, I don't know you, but reading this thread has made me think that you might want to work on improving your self-esteem as well as researching co-dependency issues. You might also want to check out this book: "Emotional Blackmail" by Susan Forward. There is also a website for men who are/have been in relationships with abusive women: for men who are recovering from relationships with abusive women and the non-abusive family and friends who love them | Shrink4Men Best wishes
ja123 Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 I'd do a little spying if I were you. I wouldn't bother with that. I'd just move on. 2
Author kryptonx Posted August 7, 2013 Author Posted August 7, 2013 She's 33 and in a relationship with a man who hasn't said word one about wanting to marry her/spend the rest of his life with her. Two year anniversary has her thinking about her future. She used this as an excuse to go fishing. "oh, me? I'm on a break with my boyfriend. It's not going very well right now. But enough about me, how did you get such big sexy muscles..." I'd do a little spying if I were you. Actually I talk about marriage to her every now and then and she doesn't like taking about it most of the time. She expects the man to support her. Like I said before. She's old fashioned like that.
Carenth Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 Actually I talk about marriage to her every now and then and she doesn't like taking about it most of the time. She expects the man to support her. Like I said before. She's old fashioned like that. Support her as in emotionally or financially? I'm confused if the later then I ask. Old fashioned or lazy? I'm going to go with the later if she has no other reason than just expecting men she dates to wait on her. Either way I concur with a lot of the other posters this is very immature behavior and I would be suggesting you take a good hard look why you would still want to be in a relationship with her. Either way it seem the relationship is on the rocks and I don't see it ending well.
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