budd98 Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 My ex g/f broke up with me 3 months ago after 3 years together and I have been doing the no contact idea. Anyways it was my birthday yesterday and I recieved a card from her 4 days ago wishing me a happy B-day and that I should call her so she can take me out for a B-day drink. Then I get a phone call last night and she left me a message wishing me happy b'-day, wondering if I got the card, wishing me luck on my job, and for me to give her a call sometime. Then 45 minutes later she called back again but never left a message. I have'nt communicated with her in a month and I have'nt tried calling her in 3 months. I still do love her. Should I call her back? What should I say? Why would she be trying to get in contact with me again or call twice last night? Do you think she wants me back? Any advice would help me out, thanks!
kiwi29f Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 I think you should call her back. Why not? Unless you had a nasty breakup & you don't care to talk to her anymore. But you said you still love her & 3 years is a long time to just "forget" about someone. She may or may not want to get back together but you'll never know if you don't call her.
Pocky Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 Call her. Call her. Call her. Call her. Call her. Gawd, just call her. No one here can answer your questions. Just call her.
beejsea2 Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 I would call her. My ex disappeared on me three weeks ago and I still care and want to know that he's ok...I'd love to have a call. Just don't get overly excited, she may just want to extend an olive branch to be your friend.
DJ_Dork Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 Originally posted by beejsea2 I would call her. My ex disappeared on me three weeks ago and I still care and want to know that he's ok...I'd love to have a call. Just don't get overly excited, she may just want to extend an olive branch to be your friend. Dude not sure about beejsea2's advice, but my advice regarding ex's is that only be friends with females that you have little interest in being romantic in.
Author budd98 Posted November 3, 2004 Author Posted November 3, 2004 Situation update! I still love her but I know she isn't right for me. She left me 3 months ago for another guy. I have been trying to move on, but she keeps trying to contact me with little different ways. We broke up the summer before over the same thing, but we got back together once she lost interest in the other guy. I just can't go back another time because she will probably do it again. I am just sick of her crushing my heart all of the time. Anyways, I might call her tonight and try to keep it very brief, or maybe I should jsut send her a voicemail? I don't know! aawww!!!
hugznkisses21 Posted November 3, 2004 Posted November 3, 2004 I say if she left u for another guy..her loss right!! You want to call her keep it simple and light. you dont want to get even more hurt since u still have feelings for her and are trying to move on. Or stick to your guns and move on...she lost out on a loving and caring guy too bad for her....
Author budd98 Posted November 3, 2004 Author Posted November 3, 2004 I did talk to her on the phone for about 30 minutes. She asked all about my family and everything that I am up to. She asked if I had gone out for Halloween and wanted to know the names of whom I went out with. I never told her. She then said that she went out and that she was SO drunk that she had to get picked up early from the party. Anyways, she insists on taking me out for a B-day drink the next time I am in town. Why would she want to meet up with me? She also keeps sending me random text messages too. Why can't she just leave me alone? Should I just not call her when I am in town and not let her buy me a drink? I just don't know what to do, so I usually do nothing!!
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