daz Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 hey all, Im guessing this is more of a question for the guys out there. I easily become aroused during dates and gets can get embarassing sometimes. I dont even have to be thinking of anything dirty it for to happen. It more the feel if something is rubbing up againt it, (like when cuddeling) sometimes i have to find myself pulling away from her I dont want to be huggin on someone and have them get the wrong impression of me any ideas? i heard masturbating before a date will help
iceisles Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 That will certainly help, but it's unlikely your date will even notice that you're "excited" unless you are wearing sweatpants (not the best date attire, by the way. lol.). I don't see how a girl could feel that from a simple hug, unless it's one of those full body contact ones. However, if it bothers you a lot, I would take care of that problem before going on a date - unless, of course, you anticipate that you may need it later on.
Majik45 Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 I know the feeling. I've been dating a girl for about a month, and basically will have this problem if we are even just walking and holding hands. You can imagine what happens if we start kissing, etc. It's quite ridiculous. I don't know what to tell you. At least she will know she doesn't have to worry about the equipment working properly when that time comes.
iceisles Posted November 2, 2004 Posted November 2, 2004 Originally posted by Majik45 I know the feeling. I've been dating a girl for about a month, and basically will have this problem if we are even just walking and holding hands. You can imagine what happens if we start kissing, etc. It's quite ridiculous. I don't know what to tell you. At least she will know she doesn't have to worry about the equipment working properly when that time comes. Mine doubles as a coat-hanger when I'm holding hands, too. The funny thing is that I still worry about it working when the time comes. Nerves can do a lot to make the turtle creep back into its shell.
mehim Posted November 3, 2004 Posted November 3, 2004 i dont mean to laugh at you guys, but its funny, cuz my bf has the same thing with me. but we have been together for along time, and im used to it, but i believe that he gets it all the time so easily even by just seeing me "somtimes" lol. i think its cute, and it maks me feel good, but as if its a first date, i dont think its a very good thing. but anyhow, i just wanted to let u know that u r not the only one. oh by the way, i think by bf gets it real easy is cuz he doesnt see me that often, so he doesnt get some all the time.
lokai Posted November 3, 2004 Posted November 3, 2004 There were days, a long time ago in middle-school, where those bumpy bus rides would force me to put my book bag on my lap. I have always experienced arousal from kissing, hugging, and at times cuddling people that I date. It can be annoying, but usually no one seems to notice.
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