wideawake0310 Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 I met this guy online (match) and we've been seeing each other for about a month now..... the question is, my subscription in match is not done until the end of the month and i still get emails from other men, and some of them i'm quite interested. however, i am with this guy right now. is it wrong to talk to other men? i feel like i'm cheating if i do that although me and the other guy is not yet "official". any thoughts?
sdraw108 Posted August 6, 2013 Posted August 6, 2013 A good general rule is, if you're deliberately keeping it hidden from the person you're seeing, then it's cheating. If you want to carry on doing it without feeling guilt, then tell the guy you're seeing. 2
newmoon Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 it's only been a month. unless you're exclusive w/this guy you can email whoever you want and see whoever you want. he might be doing the same thing; keep your options open especially if you're just going on casual dates with this guy
sillyanswer Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 any thoughts? There's a thing known (at least within this forum) as "multi-dating". If you search for that in this forum you'll find many discussions about the things you're asking about (but little consensus). But do what you like. If it feels like cheating then it probably is, in some way.
Woop1337 Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 You can go on dates with other men. Just don't tell the guy. It's only cheating if he is your boyfriend already. Same thing goes for him.
Star Gazer Posted August 7, 2013 Posted August 7, 2013 You are not "with" the guy you're seeing, and you are NOT cheating, until/unless you have a conversation establishing exclusivity.
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